1) Is there anything that you should've let go of a long time ago but are still holding onto?
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Many people are to a certain degree holding on to something they should let go of. For example, we can see a large number of people in the society holding on to fixed social norms, standards and assumptions that are fundamentally wrong or inconsistent with the nature of man, society and nature itself.
These assumptions and pre-determined standards stop them from following themselves, and instead, people end up committing to doing something that is required by external circumstances or expected by people that are not themselves ( their parents, friends, the government, etc).
What needs to be done is for them to re-examine the way they think. They need to realise that instead of being externally-driven and caving in to conformity, the only good and natural way to live their life is to follow what they think is true and natural to themselves. Be self-reliant, not your own slave-driver.
I guess i have always been holding on to something for many years that was pulled from at a young age that now I find myself almost like reliving my past again just feels so much painful this time around. I wouldnt dare just let go in Hope's one day understanding falls into place I dont have any closer in my heart I hope it will one day do right bye him and more with my will to do what ever that takes.