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3. Who are the ones that really hurt us?
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Why do we hurt the people we love?
When you care for someone truly, you become vulnerable.
The only people that can hurt you are the ones you truly care about.
The only people that can hurt you are the ones you truly love unconditionally.
Only that cuts deep.
In the end all we remember will be the silence of our friends, not the words of our enemies.
That’s the point.
We all get hurt when it is from the ones we truly care about and love.
All other emotional hurt, we tend to shrug it off and move on.
It really hurts only when it comes from those who mean a lot to you.
It works the other way as well. We all hurt the ones we truly care about and love. Because the same applies to them too. They care about us, they become vulnerable. They REALLY CARE.
Love doesn’t hurt. Expectations, possessiveness, insecurity, jealousy and emotions do.
Memories don't hurt. Love doesn't hurt. It is the attachment that hurts. It is the expectation that hurts. It is the imagined future that is now broken that hurts.
Unrequited love hurts the most. You will love someone no matter what they have done to you and that someone may not love you back no matter what you do. That hurts. Those expectations hurt.
To love is always selfless and that feeling is always unconditional. Love is always unconditional. It may sting seeing her/him with someone else, but you will be happy for him/her for their happiness is more important to you when you truly love them.
When we lose someone that we love so truly and they walk out of your life for some reason, it hurts. This doesn't mean memories will haunt us. It is the collapsed future that hurts us. Living in the past with the ones we love brings us tears, not because that is lost, but because there was something that could have been forever, but it isn't now. That hurts. That stings and we tend to associate it with good memories. Sometimes we love people more than the memories they gave us. We fall for the person, not just for the memories. We love, we live life to create beautiful memories for us and for the loved ones around us.
Expectations hurt in proportion to the emotional investment. Whenever we are too much attached to someone or something, we grow attachment and that attachment leads to expectations. These expectations when fulfilled is an awesome experience. But when we are too much emotionally invested and when those dreams aren't coming true, it stings and hurts and kills from within.
Getting over it is by forgiving and moving on with life accepting that you will never get over that true love. Forgiveness is your trait. It solely depends on you and not on the other person. You want to forgive them because you want peace of mind and don't want to hold grudges against anyone in your life.
Forgive because you have a strong heart. Forgive because you are strong.
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