2.Read the passage and answer the questions that follow: i. Do I want fame like Shahrukh khans? Do I want success like Sachin Tendulkar's? Do I want beauty like Aishwariya Rai’s? Do I want intelligence like Dr. Kalam's ? Do I want compassion like Mother Teresa's? Do I want power and courage like Kiran Bedis ? Do I want to be a good human being like my parents are? Or do I want to be just myself? ii. These are some questions that flit between our conscious mind. Such questions help us choose our ideal persona. The choice determines our oneness with that 'other, which we generally call role model. Although it has come to have a variety of connotations- from a source of inspiration to a social icon-the phrase quite literally means a model for a role, a person one can strive to emulate. For example Dr. APJAbdul Kalam is more than a name- it is a symbol of dreaming big, realizing those dreams and inspiring others to do so. Dr. Kalam is not just a huge success-the son of a fishing boat owner went on to become a rocket scientist and then the president of India-but he also embodies the right values. In short, a role model in everyway. iii. Children choose role models for themselves as early as the pre-school years, according to a theory of Dr. Amy Beth Taublieb, a clinical psychologist. The type of model changes with the development level of the child. It is the youth, with the unlimited possibilities of the future beyond them, who are influenced by the people that inspire them to fly high. iv. Today's role models are associated with money, beauty and fame. Actors and rock stars have become the center of attention as our heroes in the 21st century. But a good role model is someone we should want to be like because we see value in his or her actions. v. The role models people choose reflect the type of values they have and the society they have and the society they will create. vi. We often do not recognize our true role models until we have noticed our own personal growth. Thus, we need to keep the following points in mind before defining our source of inspiration: vii. Choose someone who has a lot of confidence in himself/ herself and in his/her abilities. A good role model would be someone who knows who he or she is. You do not want role models who would pretend to be something they are not, and would fake a personality to suit others. Choose someone who thinks it is alright to be unique, even if that means facing some ridicule. They should make you feel good about being yourself; they should not make you compare yourself to them and wish you were prettier or richer. viii. Choose someone who is kind and can communicate with people. Look for someone who is living life the way you would like to. If you want to be a famous author, your role model could be someone who is a success at writing. With these points plus our intuition or faith, we can create a picture of the ideal self that we really aspire to be. Then we just need to take one step forward to close the gap between the ideal self and the real self.
On the basis of your reading of the above passage make notes on it, using headings and sub-headings. Use recognizable abbreviations (wherever necessary-minimum 4) and a format you consider suitable. Also supply an appropriate title to it.
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We often do not recognise our true role models until we have noticed our own personal growth. Thus, we need to keep the following points in mind before defining our source of inspiration:
Confidence: Choose someone who has a lot of confidence in himself/herself and in his/her abilities. A good role model would be someone who knows who he or she is.
Genuineness: You do not want role models who would pretend to be something they are not, and would fake a personality to suit others.
Individuality: Choose someone who thinks it is alright to be unique, even if that means facing some ridicule. They should make you feel good about being yourself; they should not make you compare yourself to them and wish you were prettier or richer.
Empathy: Choose someone who is kind and can communicate with people.
Skills: Look for someone who is living life the way you would like to. If you want to be a famous author, your role model could be someone who is a success at writing. With these points, plus our intuition or faith, we can create a picture of the ideal self that we really aspire to be. Then we just need to take one step forward to close the gap between that ideal self and the real self.