Activity:-Imagine you are a student and a friend in your class who has just failed a major test or exam. Your friend is distraught because she studied really hard and still failed. Even though you got a good grade on this test, you remember what it is like to fail How do you feel it? What you will do in this case?
Answers
Studying is important
we all study
we have to be confident in ourselves
It's okay to be fail rather than copying others and get into trouble
In this case I will study hard but limitedly but not too much
My approach to this situation will be-
1. Being a friend, I will stand by her and motivate her to study even harder and read between the lines.
2. I will elaborate on my experience and lessons to support her and let her know that she is not the only person that has failed her examination.
3. I will be realistic enough and point out her loopholes so that she could pull herself out and never repeat the mistakes.
4. I completely acknowledge this situation as I have been there and understand how much disappointing it could be, but at the same time I realized a single exam cannot decide and shape your future. Consistent hard work, failures, and rising from that construct the characteristics that are required to face the real world.