Question

anyone tell me what is difference between rude and attitude. koi nauntanki nhi​

Answer 1

To the extent there is a difference, rudeness generally occurs one obvious event at a time while disrespect tends to be pervasive and subtle.  Inherent in rudeness is the response of being offended, which only a human can have.  Kicking a dog is an act of cruelty, but it can't be rude because the dog isn't capable of feeling offended or of having a custom dishonored the way humans are offended or dishonored.  The dog will be hurt and confused but presumably not offended nor disrespected....then, again, with all they're discovering about our pets, maybe that's a bad example.

Rudeness turns on knowledge.  One must know in advance what the custom is or what is expected or considered civilized.  To be rude is to engage in any behavior that one knows in advance will be offensive to another person or group.  Absence that knowledge, the behavior is only what is called a "faux pas," an innocent social goof or mistake, which doesn't rise to the level of rudeness until done a second time deliberately and with knowledge it will disrespect/dishonor others.   In this sense, disrespectful is not always rude, but rude is always disrespectful

As to the customs of a country or a group, to knowingly not abide by or honor said customs is to disrespect those customs and the country or people who hold them dear.  It's such a fine distinction, however, that, in some instances, rudeness and disrespect are the same.  

For an illustration of when the difference between the two might be more obvious, consider the custom of removing one's shoes before entering a residence/abode.  In deliberately refusing to honor this custom by walking in with shoes still on, knowing one is supposed to remove them, is disrespecting the custom and the people to whom it is important.  To walk in wearing shoes that are covered in mud is disrespecting the custom in an extremely rude manner.

Then, there is a kind of disrespect that is far more pervasive and subtle because it exists just below the surface of any interaction and often remains unrecognized by the person who harbors said disrespect.   Possibly the best example of disrespect at this level is the disrespect of females felt by most of the males in the world.  Throughout history, in nearly every culture, the males have disrespected the females, routinely treating them as second-class citizens who are not worthy of being valued and honored.  

This disrespect can be so subtle that the females don't realize they're being disrespected.  It is so subtle that those males who are so certain they don't disrespect females will turn out to be harboring the same disrespect their fathers and grandfathers had.  Not until opportunities arise to test the quality and extent of their presumed respect for females does it become too obvious to ignore.  

Answer 2

Rude means saying something to someone which might hurt the person.

Rudeness may vary according to different person's behavior.

Attitude means a way of behaving towards others.Attitude may remain constant !

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