Question

"Are you coming home with me?"he asked

Answer 1

Answer:

He asked me if I was going home with him

Explanation:

Answer 2

Answer:

He asked me if I was going home with him.

Explanation:

Answer is correct because-

The sentence is an interrogative sentence.

So, according to the narration rules if someone is asking a question there should be a "if" always and the other structure will be in the same process of the rules of grammar.