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How to avoid negative communication
1. Never ignore children’s feeling: - Whenever the child discusses about his feelings, always consider it seriously and listen patiently and try to motivate the child for consultations. If he loses a match or is undergoing breakup in relationship, try to explain them about life. Children always want support from parents and parent need to show them that they love and care for them. In present times, there is dire need to talk about sex education, parents are required to be attentive about it as well. Never lie to them because they are very good in sensing the lie of their parents. Always try to avoid threating them, as it can lead to restfulness among the children.
2. Motivate them to solve their problems finding algorithms themself: - Many a times, while pampering the child, parents over indulge so much so that they are unable to solve their problems themself. Child may also feel like his life is governed by their parents, they may feel pressurized and inferior in front of others. On the other side, children who take their own decisions always feel self-contented and independent that hence their confidence level is up as well. Never get stick to one thing about the child especially about mistakes and follies. As it will lead to problems. Child should be motivated to start over afresh. When parents constantly talk about bad past it gets very hard for the child to overcome from problems.
3. Criticism: - is one of the biggest problem which comes in all relationships. Never bang upon your children without listening them properly as it might turn as the biggest reason why the child does not want to share his things.
HOW TO REMOVE THE COMMUNICATION GAP
1. Pay proper attention to your child: - When the child needs you, try to be always available for them. During such times, if you are not there, then it may create problem for proper – development of your child. Always be the first to communicate regarding their problems .Try to indulge in every activity the child is interested in.
2. Take initiatives: - Always take initiatives to work with your children as it will enhance your relationship with them. Always try to have conversations one to one. Try to stay cool while talking to your child, even if it’s a difficult situation.
3. If you are stressed up: - If sometimes you are very busy, try to make the child understand the situation and try not be stressful over pity things.
4. Be sorry when it’s your mistake: - feeling sorry and expressing it openly in front of children will help them acquire the habit of realizing their mistakes and being sorry whenever they are wrong.
5. Show interest in what they are saying: - Avoid your work while the child wants to talk about something. Listen to their thought. Never interpret while they are expressing their feelings. Always make them understand what your concerns are regarding them. Always focus on indirect and nonverbal expressions of your child
6. Never argue: - Express your opinion but never force them. Always be calm and understand that children learn from their own view points, own mistakes. Try to motivate them to express their minds. Try to be friends with them.
Enhance your child’s self-esteem. Appreciate your child for smaller things, they perform or learn. Always be there with your children like Shadow in sorrow and friend in need.