Do you agree with the daughter in law's choice if yes why,and if not ,why not?
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Answer:
personally feel you have got the question incorrect. With the changing mentality, daughters and daughters-in-law are treated very equal in an Indian Family. I’m not talking about the rural areas where females are totally bound towards their home but in urban areas, things are gradually changing.
Let me give you an example. My sister got married in 2013, and I have never seen a family as supportive as theirs if you compare the in-laws thingy. My sister’s mother in law had two sons and my sister was the smaller DIL, so of course, our family i.e., my mom and dad had given her a whole lot of advises regarding what to do and what not to do in a home, which she is to call her own from Day 1 onwards after her marriage. But her MIL never ever asked her to wake up early and to make sure that breakfast was ready before they even woke up, When the next day, she woke up at 6 AM, the MIL was like, “Why did you wake up so early? You must be so tired from these ongoing functions, go sleep; I’ll wake you up later!” Which MIL is so understanding, may be not many, was hers was.
In the days to follow, she was never asked to go to the kitchen and prepare food except for one function where the new bride has to prepare some sweet and serve the family members. Within a month of marriage, as the guests went away; it was her Father-In-Law who asked her one day why was she sitting at home, she could go to office (mind you, my sister and brother-in-law both are Chartered Accountants and my sister could join in my brother-in-law’s firm easily), so she eventually started going office. There was no pressure of cooking food at home, managing household works and her MIL was always supportive of her. Never ever, had she asked my sister to work in kitchen after a whole day’s work in office.
Similarly, when recently my niece was born to my sister, After 6 months of baby siting, the MIL herself said my sister to join the office and that she would take her of the grand child at home.
Hence, all in all, the mentality of Indian Families are changing. They, now, do not seek any kinda differences between the daughter and daughter-in-law. They feel both are same, if you know how to love them unconditionally.
My sister was more like a daughter to them than a daughter-in-law. She has always been all in praise of them, and feels blessed to be married in a home like that.
Hope that helps.
Answer:
yes
Explanation:
Because only love can filled our home with happiness, understanding, patience and renewed strength.