essay on act on kindness you can never forget
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Probably a small act on his part as my manager but it meant everything to me.
My dad who was 83yrs old was diagnosed with Vascular Desease in Nov 2009 and we found that both his legs were dead in the sense that there was no pulse, blood and no oxygen and that his renal functions were impaired. He was not a candidate for surgery due to his age and diabetes. His condition was steadily deteriorating and he was in constant pain.
My brother and his 2 sons lived with my dad. My brother worked from 7am to 8pm, including most weekends. We knew that we had to come up with a solution that worked for all of us, especially our dad because he refused to be admitted to hospital and he wasn't going to have stranger take care of him.
My sister and I live in the same city but it's a 2hr flight from our dad. We agreed to take turns to take care of him for 2wks at a time.
I chatted with my manager and he was very understanding. He also had the unfortunate experience of him being denied time off at his previous employment when his mother had cancer and passed away. He assured me I could take off as much time as I had available. When I indicated that I could take my laptop with and work from there (I was a PM in an IT environment), he just said “no u only have one dad, go do what u need to do because this is the last u can do anything for him. The work will still be here but your dad won't”
By mid Dec my dad's organs were shutting down. His heart was too weak to pump blood to the brain, he lost consciousness every now and then, had impaired speech and full body seizures. He lost control of his bladder and had to wear adult nappies.
Jan 2010 we started feeding him thru a tube running from his nose to his stomach. Mostly he was unaware of his surroundings so I had to constantly touch his face and reassure of where he was. The seizures were more often and very intense and he was in a tremendous pain.
At the time the feeding tube was fitted at the hospital, we were also given 2x 500ml Morphine to ease the pain. The doctor advised he wouldn't make it thru the night.
At this point we had to make a decision to administer the morphine. We also had to understand that when we start, there was no turning back, the dosage had to be incremental and would take a couple of days.
I started with 10 ml of morphine into the feeding tube every 6 hrs, then increased to 15 ml and 20 ml.
My dad passed away on 8 Feb 2010 on a Sunday afternoon.
I felt a sense of peace, he was 83 yrs old, his children and grandchildren loved him dearly and he would definitely be missed by all who knew him.
My family and I will all be eternally grateful to my manager for his kindness. It allowed me to put my love for my dad in everything that I was able to do for him during his time of need.
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I was in Kashmir in temple Vaishno Devi Mandir and there was so much crowd and then I lost in the crowd and then I was crying and after 20 to 15 minutes one uncle came and then also I was crying and he said-'why you are crying.' And then I told to that uncle -'I am lost in the crowd.'
And then he said -'Do you remember your father's number.' And I said -'Yes.'And he said-'Ok say.' And then I told that uncle my father's number and then when I saw my father I don't that uncle that he is only my father and my father came and took me out .
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That I will never forget.