Question

Essay on - Sexual Harassment: The Hidden Truth

Answer 1

Hello friend,

Well when we think about the word "Sexual harassment" many of us feels shame to read the word either. But rather I'll be interested to answer this question.

★First of all what is Sexual harassment???

Is it about staring a girl or a boy??? Or you think it's about Passing any vulgar comments on a girl or a boy?? Or you think teasing is something when we sexual harrash someone???

Well if you ask me then my answer will be a big "NO".
Then what is it???

It's an unwelcomed sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature that tends to create a hostile environment for the victim.

★My another question , Do you think it's all about girls suffering from sexual harassment???

Again my answer is a big "NO".

Not just female but even male gets sexual harassed.

Despite of it's all the Publicity, TV news, Laws etc it's still happens with a girl or a boy. We'll have you ever thought on why we generally refers the name of girls when we came across word "Sexual harassment" it's not because it happens just with girls it's because rate of it is more in case of girls.

And infact the cases of such "Violent" acts are increasing day-by-day. And one it's major reason is that the people of authority aren't taking it seriously. Have you ever think about how the victim must be feeling?? He/She can be someone's mom/dad or someone's brother/sister.

But still it's sad to note that it's increasing instead of getting its rate to be low.

But do you think we as a literate citizens of the country sit ideal and watch the show??

NO...Let's take a step against it. It can happen anytime , anywhere and with anyone either it be a girl or a boy!!!! It can be a work place , Educational institutions or any Public or Holly place.

Say No To Sexual Harrashment

We did nothing for DAMINI. I consider those rallies were just for the sake of publicity stunt and nothing. Damini was sexually raped and faced death rather than living the hell life that those boys have made.

You know what the greatest fault is of those who doesn't stand against it and see the entertainment show!!! huh???

How we can avoid it??? How we can make the rate of Sexual Harassment low???

Lemme tell you a small story on how girls can be harassed??

There's a girl named Sheetal. She has a well reputed job. Her boss gifts her a car. He does a lot for her.

Well with just these lines will you say that the boss is really a caring person???

Let's read this story then,

Slowly slowly he started to rule over her. He started bullying her. He took her to a fashion shop and secretly took her pics without clothes. And started to send her those pictures of hers and asking her to spend a night with him and telling her that if she says that to anyone then he will viral those pics.

She got a lot scared. And could not decide what to do?? You know what she has done???

Without getting too much scared she told her friend about it. And with the help of her friends. And her friends asked her to go there for a night but before anything they will reach there on the spot with police.

She went to do exactly what she has been asked to do. But before he could take her in his room her friends reached their and found his boss trying to touch her and trying to lure her too. but with her wise step to say this to his friends helped her to get saved.

Don't get worried if he tries to viral your pics. God is always there to help you.

Now it's not always girls getting sexually harrased. What boys can do in such cases??? They are strong enough and more than girls to fight against it. They should inform it to police. Keeping things with themselves will not help.

Well I too have a very close friend and that's a truth that he too got sexually harrased by his own aunt. And that's very shameful act. We should raise voice against it. What he could have done in that case??? Specially when his aunt have a video too :'(

He should raise voice against it. And he should share his pain with his parents and friends and that's what he did. He shared this with me. I am with him and will always be. And in case I would have to do something I'll definitely raise voice against his aunt. I'm sure he's strong enough to fight with his aunt all by himself.

Problem's shared ; Problem gets halved is the policy that I believe

Stop Sexual harrashment , Stop harassing your brothers and sisters

Thanks!
Hope it helps you!!

Answer 2

heya!!

So according to the topic, here are my views :)

SEXUAL HARASSMENT, THE HIDDEN TRUTH
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Well, we all know the word "Sexual harassment" but many of us may not reveal this word in front of the society, may be we're grown up like that, it has been fixed in our minds, that its a shame to raise such matters. But have we all know its one of the biggest issue of this modern world.

So, first of all what's Sexual harassment, and when we can believe its existence?

Sexual harassment encompasses any sexual attention that is unwanted.

Here are some Examples of the verbal or physical conduct prohibited, A pattern of conduct (not legitimately related to the subject matter of a course if one is involved) intended to discomfort or humiliate, or both, that includes one or more of the following:
We can say these cases as one of sexual harassment!!

If some one,

1. comments of a sexual nature; or

2. sexually explicit statements, questions, jokes, or anecdotes;

3. A pattern of conduct that would discomfort or humiliate, or both, a reasonable person at whom the conduct is directed that includes one or more of the following:

• unnecessary touching, patting, hugging, or brushing against a person’s body;

• remarks of a sexual nature about a person’s clothing or body; or

• remarks about sexual activity or speculations about previous sexual experience.

Now if I'm going to talk about our country India, then we can surely cover this topic.

> India is one of the developing country. We all believe that India has got its independence since 1947..but can we say its true?

> According to me, India has still not got its freedom. Still the women of India are going through sexual harassment, domestic violence dowry deaths, etc. Still women of India are fearing from stepping out of there houses at night after 8.

> Sexual harassment isn't only related to girls but boys too, anyone can get harassed, this even happens in public..but the thing is that no one wants to get in the matter, no one wants to raise their hands, no one wants to put themselves in other's shoes, no one wants to fight against this modern issue.

> In this modern society, women aren't getting secured and safe!! That can be one of the reasons of increasing number of rape rates in India. The government doesn't want to give to its fullest in this mission against harassment.

> Everyday in mass medias, such as a news channel or a radio channel, it can be heard of a woman got raped yesterday night, a 10 years old girl got raped again, a girl got harassed again.Do the people forget the pledge they use to repeat everyday while doing these crimes!! They say, we're brothers and sisters but do they forget that when they keep staring at a girl being harassed in front of them!!

> Should we still call ourselves independent? Should we still say we got the freedom? Should we still look back while the crime comes to existence? Should we still sit silent in our homes? Shouldn't we protest against these culprits in who are still doing these crimes in front of us? Shouldn't we get them hanged?

> There are two kinds of people in this world with two different types of vision. Some people knows to protest against crimes, while some people knows just to stand and entertain these crimes taking place in front of them. There are some people who knows to fight against violence, while some people knows to support it being mum, quite, blah blah...Now its our choice of choosing the vision we wanna follow!!

> In hinduism, people believe in goddesses' power since ancient time. We can observe people celebrating Durga puja, Kali puja and what's not!! But they still don't the meaning of real worship. At one situation they worship goddesses' while the other side, a girl gets harassed. And then she is threatened to keep it hidden from the society cause people won't blame the rapist but they will point out the dressing of the girl, they will point out the personality of the women, that's their mindset!!

Can we fight against these issues? Of course yes, as there is a saying -

"If there is a problem there is a solution, if there is a will there is a way!!"

This creates a new inspiration in us, this aware us, this motivates us to change our mindsets. That we can also do, this can come true when everyone will put their hands together. This can be possible only when everyone will raise their hands against this. Even government is also supporting women's association to fight against this crime in different ways. Women movement is applying all these steps -

• Campaigning
• Raising awareness
• Protesting
• Showing solidarity

And many more...

So let's support the women movement, let's make the victims realize their mistake, their intention, let them get hanged !! Let's throw out "SEXUAL HARASSMENT" from the society !!

#hope it helps!!