Expand the following ides into 100 words: “Parents are our permanent friends”
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In my expereience, more often than not this can be a source of great anguish for so many people. Unhealthy bonds w ones parents not only sucks once we’re adults, but its one we can’t help trying to repair-too often at our expense. But its our nature to try to and receive their love and approval. I would kill to have a healthy “friendship” with just one of my parents, unfort. its not something either can give.
Having said that, I actually felt the way you did when I was 22 and felt equally pathetic and needy. For whatever reason, I’d found myself (for the first time) w/ no significant other and literally not talking to any of my friends. Which made me try to become “friends” with my parents; aka: “friends that never can leave you!” (Take it from me, if you can consider your parents your friends, you’re healthier socially than you might think.)
The goal of any friendship is to have a meaningful bond, one that is not superficial and stands the test of time. As you’re learning, actual friends are few and far between and ppl u may have considered friends b4 (gradeschool/HS…college, etc) you’re learning are more acquantainces than true ‘friends.’
“Friends” you primarily only communicate with on social media and only see a handful of times in a year ( or even a month) are really just a sounding board after a while. For me, those ppl became “competitive friends,’’ who seemed only to want to share their successes. Over time, I filtered them out because they weren’t contributing anything positive to my life.
Now, I hope youre still reading for the 2nd part of my answer.(whch is what i think u were getting at to begin with, lol but, all of us w/o parental relationships have to point out how lucky u are,before we let you feel sorry for yourself.) YOu need to ask yourself why youre depending on your parents at this point in your life for your own happiness. Did something happen recently?
It sounds like you’re going through a vulnerable time in your life. I could be wrong, but I have to assume you haven’t always had “no friends”. Anytime we regress back in a major way to the safest relationship in life, its bc we are in a time of struggle, insecurity, or uncertainty.
But what you said that concerns me, is that your happiness “Depends” on them. What do you mean by that? I would consider talking with them about how youre feeling (talking helps!) or if this persists, a therapist. Just to help you understand yourself better and why you’re feeling dependent on your parents for internal happiness. Bc they cant give that to you, no one can, only you can. They can help make it easier for you to experience joy in your life, but thats ultimately on you. Youll never find happiness on the inside by turning to external sources
I dont know your age, but the relationship w/ ones parents will naturally take a backseat to a signficant other sooner than later. The notion of “having friends” really disintegrates as your focus sharpens on building a partnership with the one youre starting a life w. A life which will entail friends, (that u havnt met yet), and ultimately the family you create. Friendships become a by product of the life you create for yourself.
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“Parents are our permanent friends”, they never let you down, they even pay our fees, they never let us starve. Sometimes they will scold us for our own good, parents let you buy stuff even now I'm writing with my father's phone. if you ever needed help your parents will always help you. my mother cooks my father does his job, my mother does laundry when my father does work. both mother and father both matter. So always remember “Friends may come and friends may go, but parents are friends for ever”