give reason :- communication revils a person's character
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Communication reveals a person’s character because the way you behave with others reflects your personality. An individual with a pleasing personality is appreciated and respected by all. Effective Communication skills play a crucial role in honing one's personality. Communication helps individuals to express themselves in the most convincing way.
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Character is often viewed as an intangible. In theory, everyone wants good character, but few people want to do what it takes to have good character.
Many are willing to sacrifice good character for immediate results.
But good character is rarely about the immediate. It is built over time, concerned with the bigger issues, and focused on long-term results.
If character is built, it requires us to identify weaknesses, to see the cracks which need to be fixed, to understand what areas are strong and what areas need some work. (See: What Every Leader Should Look For)
Bad leaders ignore the inconsistencies, make excuses, and never change.
Average leaders confront character flaws but only when they reveal themselves in dramatic ways.
Good leaders seek out the weakness or flaws in their personal character or the character of the groups they lead. They know the importance of character and seek every opportunity to improve it—especially when the stakes are low. Like a parent training a child to be trustworthy in small things so they will be trustworthy in big things, a good leader seeks good character in all aspects of life.
Often times when bad character reveals itself in dramatic ways, it has been revealing itself in mundane ways which have gone unnoticed.
A good leader is always looking for ways to improve character. (See: You Control What Matters Most)
Character is most often revealed in the place in which it is most often overlooked.
Character reveals itself in communication.
Not every bad communication is a result of bad character, but every flaw in character will reveal itself in bad communication.
We see this in:
Lying
Gossip
Slander
Bragging
Exaggeration
We understand each of these elements flows from a heart which is not in the right place. If we saw these actions in our children, we would correct them. However, we do not always correct these actions when we do them or someone in our organization does them. We accept them as common practices and write them off as insignificant details. Yet they are flaws in character. They can be tremors pointing to a future earthquake. (See: Ten Communication Posts Your Co-workers Should Read)
But more than just the traditional categories of lying and slander, character reveals itself in all forms of communication.
Consider:
Does what you say to some match what you say to all? Character has a sense of wholeness. While it’s understandable to speak a different dialect based on the people with whom we are talking, it is not acceptable to say one thing to one person and something completely opposite to another person. This is hypocrisy and hypocrisy is always a problem of character. Reviewing if our words align to everyone with whom we are speaking will begin to give us a picture of the true nature of our hearts. Where inconsistencies are present, we should ask why we speak one way to one group and another way to another. Is it fear? Is it the need to fit in? Which do we really believe? How can we speak more honestly to everyone?
Does what you say to others match what you say to yourself? Often times we have a different internal voice than external one. Sometimes we tell ourselves a more positive story. While we might apologize to a friend, internally we may not think we are wrong. While we might humbly deflect the compliments of another, internally we think we are deserving of even more. While we might verbally say “Do whatever you want,” we might internally be thinking “You better not want to do something I don’t want to do.” Whenever our words do not match our feelings, it is a character problem with us. Yet often we believe this is a problem with others. This happens all the time in marriages.
A husband asks, “Do you mind if I go to the game this weekend?”
The wife responds, “No, you can go.” But internally she is thinking, “How dare him ask to go to that game. If he really loved me, he would want to stay here with me.” (See: It’s Not My Job to Read Your Mind)
In spite of her words not matching her thoughts, the wife sees this as a problem with her husband’s heart and not her own.
Anytime our words do not match our feelings, a character flaw is revealed. Why are we unwilling to tell the truth? Is it a lack of courage? Could our unwillingness reveal that our feelings might be misplaced? Is it hypocrisy?
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