Gjve five major goals of counseling and spicific examples for each
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A major goal of counselling according to Rogers is for the client to accept responsibility for his own values, and to recognise where he is living by values largely introjected from others. He referred to the need for shedding the ‘shoulds’ and ‘oughts’ from his personal value system. He illustrates some introjected values and how these might be reconstrued as personal values (1951: 149):
"I should never be angry at anyone" (because my parents and church regard anger as wrong) might move to – "I should be angry at a person when I deeply feel angry because this leaves less residual effect than bottling up the feeling, and actually makes for a better and more realistic relationship".
"I should be successful in my courses" (because my parents count on my success) might move to – "I should be successful in my courses if they have long-range meaning to me."
"I should be sexless" (because my mother seems to regard sex as wicked and out of place for any right-minded person), or "I should be completely casual about sex behaviour" (because my sophisticated friends have this attitude) might move to – "I accept my sexuality, and value highly those expressions of it which result in long-range enhancement of self and others; I value less highly those expressions which give only transient satisfactions, or do not enhance self".
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