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1.1 she chooses her love over family , gets married to him love ( i assume the question means to marry her love by choosing here).turns out that it was the best decision she made because he was the most loving person and she couldnt have found any better.though she doesnt sees her then family and has no contact with them but she is happy because it was not them with whom she had to spend her whole life anyway.e
1.2 she chooses her love over family,gets married to him turns out that it was the worst decision she made in her life because he came out to be a totally different person than she thought he was and she suffered all kind of abuses and mistreatment by him. she is suffering but she has no one by her side because her family has cut all ties with her and now she is miserable. she regrets her decision .
2.choosing family over love.
she chooses family over love and so she breaks up with her love (assuming she was in relationship with him)and now she gets into the process of getting over him (not to mention how difficult it would be) and is going through all the pain in the world but she is happy that she didnt let her parents down and abided by their orders and proved to be a good girl.for sure she will get over the breakup but how long would it take is not known.
now they get her married to a guy of their choice and for sure they chose the best groom they could for their lovely daughter
2.1 she chooses family over love,gets married to the guy they chose and he turns out to be the best husband in the world .everyone is happy,she is happy.she made the right decision however it is unknown as to what kind of husband her lover would have proved to be but that doesnt matters now. right? her sacrifice for her love somehow has turn out to be fruitful.
2.2 she chooses family over love,gets married to the guy they chose and he turns out to be different person than her family thought him to be and now her life is miserable because of the ill-treatment by her husband. her parents console her that they will make things okay but can they unburden the guilt,the regret she is carrying of not going for her love and sacrificing it for the sake of her family’s happiness but now what? her life is miserable and she has to go through it. though her family is by her side but the pain has to be born by her.
so what i want to bring out here is that often we are afraid to choose love over family because of this fear as to what if situation 1.2 arises. no one will be by her side and the whole world would be against her saying “we warned you”.
often we sacrifice our love and choose family so that we don’t put them down. we think of all the favors our family has done for us and its our duty to make them happy by choosing them but we need to keep in mind that family is not with whom we are going to live forever and they will leave you to choose your own path once you get married. ( though they ll be by your side but not leading you) but what if situation 2.2 arises? then you can go to them and say boldly that what they have done to your life. you ll have someone on whom you can put all the blame and can play victim but is this what you were seeking ?
you can go for anything you want ,you are free to choose anything if you can bear the consequences it will bring. if you can take the blame on you. if you can take the responsibility on you .( i have tried to bring forth some consequences )
YOU ARE FREE TO CHOOSE .
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My name is KAVI VARNEKA studying class 10
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I live in Tamil Nadu
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