Have you ever made a right judgement that was praised by other
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If it’s my loved ones judging me, I tend to get very irritated because I feel they are the ones who know me well, who understand my journey, and hence I expect them to be sensitive.
But having said that, I do believe that no one can bring negativity to you, unless you let them. I think, there has to be something in me which is attracting negativity, whether it’s fear, or a sense of low self worth, or just the feeling of being unsafe, and I try to work on that.
I try to put myself in the shoes of the other person, and see their intention behind the criticism, and if I come to believe that the intention is indeed to bring about a positive change in me, I am more than happy to work on it.
Once I heal my contribution to a negative situation, the criticism simply starts bouncing off me. Also I feel empowered that I can take responsibility and be in control of any cynicism that comes my way.