Question

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QUES.▶ Explain how love is based on emotional attachment and understanding ???

Answer 1

Defining both terms, an attachment means many things, ranging from emotional affection to physical affection. We can probably define it as a strong emotional bond. Whereas, love is a direct feeling to somebody else.

Emotional attachment and love are actually interconnected but they are partially and distinctively different.

What confuses me the most is how people bring the case of attachment to the level of love — considering the fact that these people have been together for only a year or worst, months.

Humans are easily attached.

We are attached to objects, events, and people. We get attached to our personal belongings, a special place, routines, environment, atmosphere, almost everything.

Attachment is where you become self-centered. You tend to feed your needs with these particular things. And people are not an exception. We tend to get attached to people because of how they let us feel. We always believe that we like or we are supposedly in love with this particular person when in fact we are simply attached to them. You’re not in love with this particular person, you love how they always make you feel. This is why the term “giddy” or in Filipino, “kilig”, is usually used in terms of these kind of situations. As I’ve read many articles regarding psychology, our subconscious minds are driven to people who have common perception and interests with us which is usually the trouble with many relationships. We usually pursue relationships with people because we are comfortable with them and so it drives us to stay. Which is the whole context of attachment. We stay because we feel appreciated, we get attention, we feel special, we feel giddy, we get complimented, we feel encouraged which is usually drawn to becoming self-centered. We are trying to feed our needs. And we usually need attention and we love being in this kind of state. Attachment is a need for someone to fill a void in your life or in your self esteem. Which is why it feels sickening to have this person away from you because you tend to feel lonely without them around — and again, it’s about you concerning with what you’ll feel without them. Like I said, attachment.

Answer 2

Hiiii mate!!!!!

Love is basically a bonding between a girl and a boy. One should understand each other, without this their would be a misunderstanding. We get emotional strongly if the person we are loving wants to bre*k up or falls in love with another girl. Therefore,both of them should be matured enough to understand each other and should respect each others fellings then only it's possible.


But at last break up always happens so never trust love cause it's fake.
thanks