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Explain the term 'True Friendship' in your own words...
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A true Friendship can't be explained because it is like a feeling it only can be expressed.
A true Friend is not who help you in your bad situation because a true friend never let u to be in bad situation. A true friendship is beyond everything in this planet. Your love may not be with you till your last.But a true friendship will with you to the dooms day.
Friendship is not about caring and sharing .Its about something else which u can feel when you are with your true friends.You never need to show or proov your friendship with your true Friend cause u cant hide that feeling with ur friend.
I think I literally have to write a book to explain a true friendship cause this post is having only world limit of 5000 and my feelings is infinite.I am bit bad to express my views But i tried my best.
Hope u will understand This.
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this all credit goes to my both aiimsian and iitian squad...
aiimsian--tejas , harshal, arpit and ur brainly genious kundan(gozmit)
iitian--shubham he is only one iitian in my group....
we both r not brother by blood ys we r brother by heart ..which connect each other by a thinking , habit , respiration etc.....
hope u will enjoy this journey .....
so lets start now--:)
A true friend is a friend who is loyal to you even when you do hurtful things. They don't have to condone the hurtful things, nor do they have to participate in them, but their loyalty is first to you, and secondarily to anyone else.
So if you do hurt someone else, instead of siding with thee other person, they work with you to try to get you to see you did something wrong and you need to make up for it.
I had a best friend who let me down because in the end, he chose to be more loyal to my wife than to me, even though our friendship had been going on for much longer. It was devastating at a time when I really could have used some support in deciding what the right thing to do was. His feeling was that he didn't want to keep secrets from my wife, so he didn't want to know anything that I might ask him to keep secret.
A true friend is a friend who is loyal to you even when you do hurtful things. They don't have to condone the hurtful things, nor do they have to participate in them, but their loyalty is first to you, and secondarily to anyone else.
So if you do hurt someone else, instead of siding with thee other person, they work with you to try to get you to see you did something wrong and you need to make up for it.
I had a best friend who let me down because in the end, he chose to be more loyal to my wife than to me, even though our friendship had been going on for much longer. It was devastating at a time when I really could have used some support in deciding what the right thing to do was. His feeling was that he didn't want to keep secrets from my wife, so he didn't want to know anything that I might ask him to keep secret.
I think it is really hard to be this kind of friend, because we mistake the idea that supporting a friend also means approving of what they do. We are friends because we have shared a lot over the years. In general, we have the similar views or at least respect for the views of the other. We enjoy spending time together doing whatever. We do things that we might not enjoy with a friend simply because they are a friend and it's important to share face time to maintain the friendship.
I have to confess that I was very judgmental before I got diagnosed with bipolar disorder. However, in learning to cope with the disorder, I learned that I couldn't afford to be judgmental like that, any more. I was judging myself, too, and in doing so, I was pushing myself closer and closer to suicide.
Now I see that true friends are people I can share anything with, and they are willing to hear anything from me. I trust them to have my interests at heart, despite their lack of comfort with what I do. They are concerned about my long term wellness, as a person. They are willing to undergo short term discomfort because they believe that, in the long run, I will come around.
A lot can go on with a friend, and they can start acting distant and uninterested. True friends are not put off by this. They don't just assume that the other person has lost interest in them. Instead, they reach out to see if their friend is ok.
I don't know about my friends. I don't understand what happened. When I got depressed, I couldn't reach out to anybody. I couldn't talk on the phone. I couldn't tell anyone.
It was over a year before any of my closest friends tried to contact me, and then if was just for an annual traditional get-together. My best friend never once tried to contact me to see if I was ok. I don't know if it never occurred to him, or he just didn't want to have anything to do with me if I was sick.
True friends stay in touch. True friends watch out for you. True friends are on your side, even if they don't approve of what you do. True friends see you as a whole person, and their behavior is guided by that perception; not by petty fears of their own.
I guess this is a lot to expect, and I know I've had a hard time living up to these values, but I want to try to change. I have new friends now. Not a very long track record, but we are doing things together that may help us build stronger relationships, and we started out together in a support group, where it is safe to talk about almost anything.
this is my fantastic 4 squad---:)
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