Hey there! I need your help :)
Write a letter/advice to a friend who is being bullied, what they should do?
(180-200 words)
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Answers
Hi there,
When someone gets bullied it can affect them in lots of different ways. From what you have said your friend is already coping with depression and she self-harms, so the bullying could be making this worse for her. It is great that she has a friend like you to support her, though, as facing something like this alone could be really frightening.
The bullying you describe sounds very serious. Your friend is being physically hurt as well as called hurtful names. Nobody deserves to be treated this way and what the bullies are doing is wrong, so it is understandable you are concerned about your friend.
I understand your friend doesnt want to go to the police she might be worried about telling someone. The police are there to help in situations where people arent safe. There are other people who can help your friend too. The school will have an anti-bullying policy and it sounds like it is happening whilst she is there, so telling a teacher would be an important step for your friend.
Whilst it is okay to go to the police, its usually a good idea to give your school a chance to fix the problem themselves first. Maybe you both could have a think about who she could tell, like a favourite teacher, and together you could write down all the things that have happened and what your friend would like to say to the teacher.
Over the holidays, your friend could also think about telling a trusted adult, so someone she lives with or someone shes close to who could help her in getting some support.
Having good friends is important, especially if someone is being bullied like this. Youve been very supportive by writing to me on behalf of your friend. You can read more about helping a friend here.
It will take a lot of courage for your friend to speak to someone. Maybe she can have a think over the holidays to help her decide what she would like to do.
In the meantime, if you or your friend would like to speak to a counsellor to get more support with this or anything else then our counsellors are here for you.
Take care,
Sam
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Dear Zoe,
How are you doing my friend? I know something is going wrong with you. Your brother Sam told me that you are being bullied these days in school when i was returning from college. I know when someone gets bullied it can affect them in lots of different ways. Your old friends have started bullying you very badly i think. But don't panic. Bullying is a major problem in many schools and communities. It can leave you feeling anxious,lonely, worthless and scared - but it doesn't have to be like this. I'll help you Zoe. First of all you shouldn’t suffer in silence. Tell your mum, your dad or any grown-up you trust. Adults, can and must help you with whatever you're going through. Keeping it to yourself will only be more tough in the long run. You must avoid even looking at them and don't be fearful when they bully you. If it's serious, then please te your school teacher/ principal about it. Avoid them and never cry when they bully you.
I hope my advice is of some help to you. I am looking forward to get a reply from you. Let me know how things turn out and remember to think positively.
Yours affectionately,
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