Question

How beautiful a relationship is while you are still unsure of each other ! A politically incorrect statement, but true nevertheless.

We put our best foot forward only when we are not sure of each other, dancing attendance upon every wish of our loved ones-expressed and unexpressed. We get them used to our attention, but then once secure, we relax and withdraw the royal treatment.

Isn't courtship the most amazing part of a relationship? The part you spend the rest of your life hoping to get back to? The ideal time that shows you what could be, but is never so ever again? It is the time when you are totally focused on each other in a world of your own. And then, something shifts. You become sure of each other and the excitement and uncertainty of the chase is over. You no longer have the incentive to lay out the best.

Now the hitherto hidden traits show through-nasty warts, farts, rudeness and all. Interestingly, what had been held back during the initial stages of acquaintance, are just the unpalatable bits, which now erupt like landmines all around. Where were all these social aberrations and irritating habits earlier?
You no longer feel the need to get to know each other's nuances and care sensitivities; the prize has been grabbed and the wall comes down.

3 One of the first negative fallouts of familiarity is taking loved ones for and often forgetting to accord them the regard and attention that is their No wonder then that sometimes even those closest to us start getting intet with our over-familiar behaviour.

Recently, I told a close friend when she let me down, second time in a row. wish you would behave more formally with me. I am not comfortable with taking me for granted and expecting me to understand you all the time. Be vigilant and responsible towards me as you would towards someone you did not know so well." Taken aback she said, "Too late for that now, isn't it?"

And then, soon the shoe was on the other foot, when another friend, who is a close to me as a sister, was offended when I came across her in the club and asked, "Why are you eating just dal? Can I get you some chicken? How about a drink?" Later, she told me I had ventured into a space I had no business to be in.
Read the above passage and Answer the following questions.
1. How do we behave when we feel secure in our
relationship?
2. How do we behave during the period of courtship?
3. What are the negative results of familiarity?
4. Why did the narrator's friend feel offended?
5. Why does
familiarity breed contempt?
6. What incentive makes us lay out our best?
Note - ( Don't scam other wise i report you )​

Answer 1

Answer:

sorry I can not find the answers of question no. 4 and 5 .

Answer 2

Answers are given below:

1. When we feel secure in our relationship, we relax our efforts to consolidate and strengthen the bond. It does not mean that we care less about it, but we let things go at their pace and do not always put on the best behaviour. When we are sure about the partner, the excitement, chase and thrill are gone.
2. During the period of courtship, when we are making advances toward someone, we are unsure of the relationship. We try to put our best foot forward to impress the other person, make all efforts to make them feel good and special and like the attention and chasing them.
3. The negative effect of familiarity is that we take our loved ones for granted and often forget to acknowledge and appreciate their attention and love.
4. The narrator's friend feels offended because the narrator wished her friend behaved more formally with her so that she would not take her for granted.
5. Familiarity breeds contempt because familiarity makes you comfortable unfolding your informal side or your self that does not filter words and efforts to be good and caring. We take the person for granted.  Therefore, familiarity brings a disregard for the other person.
6. The incentive of having the attention, trust and love of the person we're courting makes us lay out our best.

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