how can be humar cultivated
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People who can not relax their “will., are less able to find humor in everyday life. The precursor to developing a sense of humor, requires a substantial amount of work on the structure of one’s character, and how the person’s early environment was fraught with such uncertainties and dangers that disallowed for a relaxation of the will.
It isn’t a matter of teaching someone to appreciate humor, and sitting them down to watch or listen to comedians for weeks on end. As I’ve written about before, the relaxation of one’s will, comes from developing a new sense of psychological safety and comfort being in one’s own skin. The classic example of those lacking humor, although the try, and sometimes “work” at trying to be funny, (with the will still actively engaged and in charge) , are those who of the obsessive compulsive variety, who, as David Shapiro has written of can be “willful with a vengeance.”
Humor requires taking a leap from one set of meanings, to another, and that distinction can only be achieved with psychological-emotional flexibility. If one is too rigid and preoccupied with the need for control (psychological safety which can be assumed), it is considerably more difficult to find the relaxation necessary to find humor.
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