How competent communicator are you?
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Answer:
Competent communicators are aware of their own ethical beliefs, and they communicate in ways that are consistent with those beliefs. Good communicators are aware of their own behavior and its effect on others. Researchers call this awareness self-monitoring.
Competent Communicator Characteristics:
There are 5 characteristics of a competent communicator. These characteristics are used to help
students increase their interpersonal communication skills. Review each of the characteristics of a
competent communicator below. As you are reviewing the information, consider how/if each
characteristic aligns with the learning outcomes of the NSE course.
Adaptability
Competent communicators are able to assess what is going to be
appropriate and effective in a given context and then modify their
behaviors accordingly. That ability is important because what works
in one situation might be ineffective in another. Part of delivering a
good speech, for instance, is being aware of the audience and
adapting your behavior to your listeners. A competent
communicator would speak differently to a group of senior
executives than to a group of new hires, because what works with
one audience would probably not work with the other.
Cognitive Complexity
The ability to consider a variety of explanations and to understand a
given situation in multiple ways is called cognitive complexity.
Cognitive complexity is a valuable skill because it keeps people from
jumping to the wrong conclusion and responding inappropriately.
Someone with little cognitive complexity might feel slighted during a
conversation and might therefore ignore a person the next time they
meet. In contrast, someone with more cognitive complexity would
remember that behaviors do not always mean when we think they
mean. That person would be more open-minded, considering several
possible interpretations of another person’s actions.
Empathy
Good communicators practice empathy, the ability to be “otheroriented” and understand other people’s thoughts and feelings. When
people say “Put yourself in my shoes,” they are asking you to consider
a situation from their perspective rather than your own. Empathy is an
important skill because people often think and feel differently than you
do about the same situation. People who don’t practice empathy tend
to assume everyone thinks and feels the same way they do, and they
risk creating problems when that assumption isn’t accurate.
Source: Floyd, K (2012). Interpersonal Communication, Valencia College Edition. Publisher: McGraw Hill: New York, NY.
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Ethics
Competent communicators are ethical communicators. Ethics
guides us in judging whether something is morally right or wrong.
Ethical communication, then, generally dictates treating people
fairly, communicating honestly, and avoiding immoral or unethical
behavior. That can be easier said than done, because people often
have very different ideas about right and wrong. What may be
morally justified to one person or one culture may be considered
unethical to another. Competent communicators are aware of
their own ethical beliefs, and they communicate in ways that are
consistent with those beliefs.
Self-Awareness
Good communicators are aware of their own behavior and its
effect on others. Researchers call this awareness self-monitoring.
People who are high self-monitors pay close attention to the way
they look, sound, and act in social situations. In contrast, people
who are low self-monitors often seem oblivious to both their own
behaviors and other people’s reactions to them. Self-monitoring
usually makes people more competent communicators because it
enables them to see how their behavior fit or doesn’t fit in a given
social setting. In addition, high self-monitors often have high levels
of social and emotional intelligence, qualities that allow them to
understand people’s social behaviors and emo