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How to Make Someone Feel Like the Most Important Person in the World: 5 TipsCreate this feeling in others and you'll have irresistible charisma.
BY JESSICA STILLMAN, CONTRIBUTOR, INC.COM
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How to Make Someone Feel Like the Most Important Person in the World: 5 Tips
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Ask people to describe the world's most charming individuals and what you'll often hear isn't details of how those people behave, but instead stories of how they make other people feel.
Take English journalist Jenni Murray's encounter with legendary charmer Bill Clinton as an example. "He made you feel for those few short moments that you were the only woman in the world and he'd never met anyone as interesting or as lovely as you," she wrote of her brief encounter with the former president at a reception in 2004.
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How do the likes of Clinton and others with "reality distortion field" levels of charisma manage to create this spellbinding impression? It's not magic, it's a set of skills, according to a Quora thread covering the topic that has over 100 answers, several from experts in the field. Across this vast array of advice, a few key, learnable techniques emerge.
1. Don't talk so much!
Many people think making other people feel comfortable and entertained is about saying the right things, but according to many of the Quora respondents, the real trick isn't talking well, it's listening well, and for that you need to actually shut your mouth. "Realize that to make others feel important, you will share the spotlight, or sometimes, you'll stand behind it," writes charisma coach (yes, apparently there is such a thing) Jeff Callahan in his response.
To do that, "go into conversations with the mindset of 'I'm going to hold the spotlight for other people tonight,'" he suggests.
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