how should we react when our mother scolds us when our younger sister is crying even though it is not our fault
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Just say 'I didn't do that '
That's a great question mate.
She scold us because in her childhood, she was also scolded by her parents thats why she's in the right direction. She believes that by doing this her children will also walk in the right direction.
Our mother whenever scold us, there is a reason behind that. She just want our good that's why she scolds us. She can see the long term view as compare to us, she assume if keep doing whatever we are doing then it might be wrong for us.
We should feel the love and compassion which is hidden behind the reason of scolding. We should feel blessed if that at least we have mother who cares for us and makes food for us for free of cost.
Remember: Anger can only be conquered through love.
*so if she gets angry then simply listen to her first of all calmly and then answer to her with empathy when is she is calm. It will increase gratitude and love bonding between you*