How should
we
treat our parents?
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Answer:
we should treat our parents will respect because they are our elders ... we should talk to them in a polite manner
Answer:
1. Do not talk back.
I believe it is okay to reason out to your parents if you need them to understand your side. However, do this in a gentle and respectful manner—not arguing with them and imposing your views. If they tell you to shut up, then do not say anything.
2. Keep your tone low.
When talking to your parents, always observe your tone. You should not sound like bossing them around.
3. Be humble and say ‘sorry’.
When you have misunderstandings with your parents, be humble even if you think it is not your fault. Be the first one to reach out and apologize.
4. Do not cross your arms when talking to them.
Crossing your arms in front of them, even if you are discussing something peacefully, is like showing them you are of the same level. Or it may also show defiance towards what they are telling you.
5. Do not bring up past issues.
At times when you and your parents get into a misunderstanding, avoid bringing up the past issues that were resolved already. You are not a historian.
6. Avoid lying to them.
Sometimes, we make lies because we do not want our parents to be disappointed with us. However, the moment you cannot cover those lies anymore, they would be more than disappointed with you.
7. Do not break their trust.
In connection to #16, keeping their trust is one of the best ways we can show them our respect and love for them. Therefore, avoid doing things that can break it.
8. Introduce your friends and special someone to them.
When you introduce the people you usually go out with to your parents, it makes them feel really valued. It will also give them peace of mind, since they know whom you are with when out of the house.
9. Open up about your problems.
Your parents want to feel needed and trusted. Be open to them about what is happening to your life.
10. Listen to their advice.
Your parents will give only give you the counsel they think are best for you. Accepting and doing their advice means you value their words.