How to overcome a constant fear of losing a person?
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Heya buddy!!
First thing u need to know is that ntg in this world is forever...and we cant say that something completly belongs to us..... take an ex of rice.... u know when u buy a pack of rice... ots ours..no one can take it from u without ur permission....but remember the place it came from... it e somewhere in a far far away place and is just like a daughter of some farmer and he took care of it for 6 months or something....cared for it day and night norished it and finally as it has to be sold.... it was sold.... and u brought it and now its urs....u think u have ultimate rights on it just because u brought it?? Well if u think so.... then what abt u being born?? Weren't u just a product of ur parents?? They produced u and now... if i tell u they have ultimate authority on u... and u need to listen to EVERY SINGLE WORD THEY SAY and be a robot...will u still agree..???
Never!! Right?? So... my friend, no matter how much we love something or how much u caress it or how bad want it to be with u.... we will just be wishers and the choice must be the other person's.... its a natural thing for anybody to have the fear of losing someone very very dear to us...we want them to be with us all the time.. cuz we are all humans.but do u think they r gonna stay just becuz u want to.. they will but we shouldnt be that selfish it is them who needs to deciede that... if i ask u to go live in pakistan will u??
So my friend whenbu realise these things i said, u surely will overcome that fear.... feel that ntg is completly urs u just have some partial part in it...
Hope this will help u... thumbs up!!! good luck