How to resolve old hurts between best friends?
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Try talking about the issue with your friend. This is obviously connected to the first step, since you can’t reality-test your perceptions without your friend's feedback. Many times this kind of discussion leads to a resolution. But sometimes, as happened with Jake and Sam, the resolution isn’t what you expect or want.
Discuss it with someone else you trust. If you can’t get your friend to talk to you, talk things over with someone whose opinion you value. But don’t play the gossip game. It might feel good to turn a mutual friend against a friend who's wronged you, but in the end it will just make the situation worse. Receiving advice from someone who is disengaged and neutral is not the same thing as talking about a friend behind their back.
Discuss it with someone else you trust. If you can’t get your friend to talk to you, talk things over with someone whose opinion you value. But don’t play the gossip game. It might feel good to turn a mutual friend against a friend who's wronged you, but in the end it will just make the situation worse. Receiving advice from someone who is disengaged and neutral is not the same thing as talking about a friend behind their back.
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Hey frnd.
This is Nishabd.
Well friends are those whom we can choose by our own and no one forces you on that.
Well in friendship small dispute and misunderstanding are major part to strengthen the friendship but sometimes misunderstanding arose to a very high level when friends stops talking and consulting each other and discuss how to be more faithful,joyful,loving and to develop a bond which could never be broken.
And leaving ur frndship for those misunderstanding are just senselessly insensible so be faithful and trust on ur bond. Time will resolve it by its own.
And in last I want to tell u that people doesn't stay together coz they forget, they stay together coz they forgive.
Thnku
This is Nishabd.
Well friends are those whom we can choose by our own and no one forces you on that.
Well in friendship small dispute and misunderstanding are major part to strengthen the friendship but sometimes misunderstanding arose to a very high level when friends stops talking and consulting each other and discuss how to be more faithful,joyful,loving and to develop a bond which could never be broken.
And leaving ur frndship for those misunderstanding are just senselessly insensible so be faithful and trust on ur bond. Time will resolve it by its own.
And in last I want to tell u that people doesn't stay together coz they forget, they stay together coz they forgive.
Thnku
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