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The relationship people have with their bodies is more complex than just good or bad. And when it comes to giving compliments about the body, flattering someone may not be helpful. Especially when you don’t personally know them.
When we’re looking at a person’s life online, we’re only seeing one very small part of what’s happening in their life. So consider this extreme but empathetic idea when typing up your comment: Avoid saying anything about someone’s appearance. Just say nothing.
In an article for SELF, Alana Massey wrote: “There are no truly ‘safe’ words to use to describe another person’s body without knowing their relationship to these words.” A comment that you assume is perfectly harmless could reaffirm a more harmful comment made by someone else. For example, saying “Wow, you look much healthier now!” to a friend you haven’t seen in a while could send the wrong message because it implies that you didn’t consider them healthy before.
After all, there are a lot of factors — from chronic conditions to drastic life changes — that make it impossible for someone to have total control over their figure. So maybe it’s time to rethink the kinds of compliments we give, to really elevate people for their inner beauty rather than their looks, weight, or body type.