If making mistakes is right then why are we so afraid to make mistakes?? (answer In brief spammers will be reported)
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Upbringing
Since childhood, whether or not we are rewarded for things that we do right or ‘correctly’, more often than not, we have been scolded t or punished for making mistakes, whether it is about making a silly calculation error in math, or leaving a book behind at a friend’s place… Therefore, we have hardwired our brain to think that it is ‘terrible’ to make mistakes
Fear of rejection
Many of us dread being rejected, or ridiculed or mocked at. It is so important for us to be accepted by our loved ones, that we always want to come across as correct, and perfect, to them. We believe that if we make mistakes, it will tarnish our reputation. Therefore, even in the worst case scenario, where we end up making a mistake, we are always prepared to blame an external variable for it.
Fear of the unknown
Many times, we do not know what will happen if we make a mistake. We imagine that the consequences would be earth-shattering, and we are so petrified by the imagined scenario that we absolutely dread making the mistake.
The right-wrong debate
Being right is often overrated by people around us, and the society at large. The need to walk right, sit right, speak right, do things right, has been reinforced endlessly. The reactions, both verbally and non-verbally, towards those who might perhaps trip, or clumsily drop things, or forget to pay the light bill, are often not very pleasant. People therefore do not want to be at the receiving end of such reaction, and therefore choose not to make mistakes at all in the first place.
Disappointment in oneself
Many a times, we set unrealistic standards for ourselves. By making mistakes, we look small in our own eyes. In order to live up to self-created expectations, we become afraid to falter.
Is it possible to overcome this fear? Yes, it is. A lot of my clients have worked on their fear of making mistakes, and are now comfortable with themselves, accepting the fact that mistakes are very much a part of each of our lives.
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Making a mistake is absolutely correct coz of course we learn and discover more by making mistakes...But making a mistake purposely is wrong.. Moreover, we are afraid to make mistakes because it's actually human nature that we try to be good in everything..Let's take an example from the school...If a teacher gives u an activity..nd says that it's of 10 marks n u must do it neatly and beautifully..then we all will try to avoid mistakes as much as we can...& if by mistake we hv done lots of mistakes in that Activity then we will surely feel embraced when showing it..That's when we are afraid to do mistakes coz we want to be perfect in everything...And that's impossible no one can be perfect..but yes we can try..coz in that way we will hv more experience n do lesser mistakes..coz we will think twice before doing anything if we want to be perfect...
So, in my opinion I would conclude that making a mistake is surely right but doing it purposley is wrong..We are afraid to make mistakes coz we want to be better..we don't want to show people our faults... Moreover I think we we just try to avoid mistakes because we r embarassed to show people our mistakes...and I think that's totally wrong...One must believe that nobody is perfect.. everybody commits mistakes.. Even me..I hv committed loads of mistakes.. but we need to learn from them and gain experience...We must not be afraid to do any mistake..we must try n take part in everything new..n mustn't miss any opportunity..In that way we will learn and gain experience...
Btw I'm not talented enough to write a perfect answer..But I still tried..coz I think if some1 ask the same question again I'll do better... Moreover I'm just in 8th..So, I don't know much..If u r not happy with my answer or if you don't agree then you can surely report it...Also this question is brilliant! I'm impressed! Please do continue asking these types of questions.. which require thinking..
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