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Respect is something you choose to give. It is not based on achievement. It is not based on personality. Respect is given because you value people. Inherently.
A position may be earned. A title. Leadership. However, respect is something that we choose to give.
People who are respected tend to behave in a manner worthy of how they are being treated. Obviously, that is not universal, but it is common enough to be worth noting. If you want people to behave well and treat others around you with kindness and gentleness, then treat them well. Do unto others…
There is another misconception about respect. Sometimes, people get the idea that one must always agree when showing respect. That is not true. It is very possible, and fruitful, to disagree and even argue in a manner that demonstrates politeness and consideration. If you value someone, you will want to tell them the truth. You will want to share your opinions with them honestly and completely. That can be done without berating the person, without insulting them or their opinions, and without causing hurt, guilt or shame.
It disappoints me when I hear people say, “I don’t respect the position, the uniform, or the title. If this guy wants my respect, he will have to earn it.” Respect may be earned by those who excel at something. However, this is not the foundation. We start by treating all people well, but we may find there are some who represent ideals in life that we wish to strive for ourselves, and who we wish to honor further. That is what “earning respect” is all about.
If someone needs to earn your respect, then you do not actually respect the person, you are only respecting their achievement, talent, or attirbutes. If you respect a person, you choose to do so without regard to what they have or have not done. Respecting their achievement, talent, or attributes is another thing entirely, and while this is not bad, it has very little to do with respecting the actual person.
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Respect is your constant efforts of being you who does good for you and others around you in any possible way. Respect is something that has to be earned and a costly affair. Respect should never ever be demanded, for that matter nothing works out on demand.
What is with all the numerous groups wanting to get their way these days -- "demanding" everyone else think their way? This just shows how selfish and arrogant some of these groups have become. Making "demands" of other people isn't any way to live. Especially in a country that has, as its foundation, liberty and freedom. Everyone has the right to think for themselves.
Respect, trust and love, must be earned. Earned as well as returned. Meaning, if one wants to be respected or trusted or loved, one must show the same for other people. We don't have to agree with or even like each other. But to receive respect, trust or love, it must be returned. Respecting another viewpoint and opinion. With this mutual feeling, each side can sit down and discuss the differences in a (more or less) reasonably mature manner, without name calling, bad mouthing and criticizing each other.
While everyone has the right to disagree and/or protest, real solutions can only be obtained with honest discussions. That is how differences can be resolved. But too often it seems some groups don't want solutions to differences, they only want -- demand -- acceptance of their viewpoint. Demonstrating and protesting seems to be more important to some than actually solving the differences. Where and why do they believe their viewpoint, opinion, belief is the only acceptable one? Who are they to dictate what others think and do? Remember our country is founded on liberty and freedom. The freedom to believe and the freedom to disagree.