Question

imagine you are persome the Bishop's sister how would you tell the bishop not to be too generous at is own cost

Answer 1

I would tell him that Genorousity is a great virtue, indeed, but requires extreme precaution to whom it is gifted.
Be generous to those who you feel you should be generous to, generousity isn’t something to throw around at everyone. Thieves, robbers, murderers, generousity isn’t meant for them. They do not accept generousity and kindness. These people aren’t’ born for deserving these unspeakable gifts.