In the first stanza of if by Rudyard Kipling who is blaming it on you?
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To be a good human being and to succeed in life, we should keep calm when other people around us are losing their cool. We should not lose our temperament even if others are blaming us for their fault.Losing the temper does not solve a problem, rather intensifies that. Keeping the head cool makes us think wisely to face those tough situations, and ultimately a solution comes out.We should have the faith in ourselves, even when others doubt us. But after that, we should give some importance to their doubt too and try to find out what may be the reason for their suspicion. After all, ‘To err is human…’.
We should have the faith in ourselves, even when others doubt us. But after that, we should give some importance to their doubt too and try to find out what may be the reason for their suspicion. After all, ‘To err is human…’.So, By keeping faith in ourselves we make sure that we don’t get demoralized or disheartened. And, by allowing others’ doubt a little space of thought, we ensure that we are not doing something wrong knowingly or unknowingly
We should work hard and wait for the result patiently. We should not get tired by waiting.
We should work hard and wait for the result patiently. We should not get tired by waiting.There are a number of real life examples where people missed big opportunities only by losing their patience. Moreover, there goes a number of proverbs. “Hurry will bury you.” “Haste makes waste.” “Patience pays off.” So, it’s quite understandable why the poet makes a point for patience here.People may lie about us to others, but we should not indulge ourselves in lies. In other words, we should always remain truthful.
People may lie about us to others, but we should not indulge ourselves in lies. In other words, we should always remain truthful.If we are misled or tempted to lie, people would ultimately discover the truth and won’t believe us anymore. That’s why it’s important to speak the truth even if that hurts us.
People may show their hatred towards us, yet we should not hate them. We should show our love and respect to others.
People may show their hatred towards us, yet we should not hate them. We should show our love and respect to others.No man or woman is perfect in this world. Everyone has his strengths and weaknesses. We have to accept that and respect them for the good qualities in them.We should not show us as too good a person or talk too wisely with common people, even after possessing such qualities.
We should not show us as too good a person or talk too wisely with common people, even after possessing such qualities.Having acquired all these good qualities mentioned above, people generally feel proud and tend to show off how good they are. But, the poet warns us not to go that way. In that case, others would feel uncomfortable in our company and avoid us. Even others may try to prove us wrong at any cost, leading to an unhealthy competition.