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In what way does peer and parents pressure affect our career

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Answered by Pavannn
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You can force a horse to the stream, but you cannot force it to drink water. So goes the popular saying. This is apparently akin to one of the major challenges that teachers face on a daily bases, namely, teaching unwilling students or students who are obviously in the wrong class or career. One of the major causes of these is a student offering a subject or in a career forced upon them by their parents or the effect of peer influence.  



Children should be helped to discover their talents

Parental and peer influence is a serious problem that has serious and far-reaching consequences. A student who prefers one subject or career and the parents or friends prefer another, is simply reduced to a programmed robot that simply does what is expected of him with disregard for the preferences and feelings of the boy or girl.

Such a student will definitely have problems with concentration, assimilation, dedication and focus in school. It will be a miracle to find such students do well in school. Assignments and classwork will be big burdens for such a student. Such students will always have mood swings and may appear completely withdrawn from school activities. He or she is just like a feather being tossed around by the wind. The student does not have a mind of his or her own. School results and reports will definitely reflect these facts.

At work, competence will definitely play out the history of their education.  Such an individual cannot live up to expectation. This should not come as a surprise. In jobs where the competence of the person is very easy to see like teaching, medicine, law, architecture, accounting, engineering, computer science and the like, the person’ s career may be in a disaster.

This is the powerful and far reaching effect of parental and peer pressure in career decisions.

Many lives have been destroyed in the course of parents trying to make their children be what they (the parents and friends) want them to be, not caring about the preferences of the child. My take on this is very simple. Children should be allowed to make their career choices.  They should be allowed to identify their talents, preferences and areas of interests and explore them. Parents in particular, should only guide and advise their children. They should be interested in the reasons behind a particular choice being made. This is to ensure that the choices made are based on enough facts, not based on peer pressure and misguided assistance from outsiders. The highest parents can do is to try to persuade and not to force.

It is necessary to remind parents that it is the child’s life we are talking about here. So the child should have the final say on subject and career decisions.

Answered by Anonymous
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With the help of this, I would try to help you out with the topic. First of all let us know what's peer pressure ?

Peer pressure is nothing but the demand that society have on you. It's their wishes and demands which will make you force to impress them. Peer pressure or people pleasure certainly not very difficult things. These are something which we can say is same.

Peer pressure tries to impose it's restrictions and conditions both. It doesn't mean that peer pressure is totally wrong. One should have a pressure so that he/she can get motivated and prove them in the field they wanna be at or they are.

Peer pressure has both positive and negative aspects. If talking about the positive one, peer pressure is something which will greatly influence you to build your character and get master in a particular field. This will help you as to be a better person as well as hard working competitor for your competition.

If talking about the negative one, peer pressure may lead you to the negative things. It can affect you as a human being. You will be prone to it's side effects such as involvement in bad things. In case, if the person is able enough to fight with those he will surely get success.

Concluding the topic, what we can say is peer pressure has it's pros and cons but everything depends on us how we take it. As stated above, if the negative one is fought then the result can be a positive experience.

So definitely it's good for us.

Thanks !!..

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