in what ways does your mother guide you?
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mother
I had a laugh the other day because I was reading something about Narcissistic mothers, which my mother was (bless her immensely, but she was the display kind… all about image) but they said that often such a mum will teach her daughter many things, and then take much pleasure in taking all the glory for herself. It's funny now, but is also infuriating at times…because that mum would really enjoy it if you told everyone “all you ever learned was from her”
But aside from that, truly my mum did teach me many woinderful things and even helped me with my University studies.
A I've all though, She taught me sound principles and ethucs/she taught me to be faithful in marriage/ she tenaciously drummed it into me and yet again reiterated and taught me, and told me, and instructed me, to keep a promise and that faithfulness was not to be compromised , (and exactly why it so deeply hurts personally when someone unjustly accuses me of being false.. Because that's just not who I am, especially when it comes to Covenant) ,
and taught me that you don't hurt someone by getting engaged and then breaking up and that engagement was as good as martiage/and you don't tell someone you love them just for fun in passing but don't really mean what you say and turn turncoat when it didn't suit you anymore and that if you say that in particular, it's exactly what you mean/
Now then you ask about help?? Well she helped me with my needlework and helped me choosing clothes.. (that one had some problems as you can imagine .. Narcissist chooses daughter’s image) but one of the things I really found special was that she was ever so brave as to personally make my beautiful pink and white wedding dress. That I will never forget. (By the way.. In April I will be married 44 years, and I still have my wedding dress.) The 2 parents… gave us the most wonderful wedding,, in their garden, and today after all these years some of the guests are still talking about it.
I know many people didn't have mothers at all and others sadly got separated from their mothers, but even if you didn't or couldnt, still honor your absent mother in your thoughts because your mother gave you life. Many mothers arnt very good mothers and children don't always understand.. But not all mothers come through easy times and it's often hard to stay a mother. ( Even a mother would like to be loved like a little girl sometimes) . My mother did lots of things wrong, but what I'm truly the most grateful for is that she and my father never divorced.
I have the most great privelege of a relationship with Jesus Christ and am a recipient of His grace, and in His wisdom, and no matter what happened, He gave me my mum. All the things that went wrong, He can fix.. So that yet again, as St Paul the Apostle said “His grace is sufficient for me. ♥ ♥ ♥ .
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she always try to gide in different way depending on sutation and my capacity to listen it