in your own concept how can you define the following what loyalty and friendship do you consider yourself to have these qualities I write about loyalty and friendship in about hundred to 150 words
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You have a friend by being a friend. Loyalty is a vital part of that, but it's only something you can discern if you've known someone for a good length of time. Some ways to demonstrate loyalty are by being present for your friends, making time for them, lending a hand in hard times, hearing them out when they need to talk, and listening without judging. (That doesn't mean you can't question what they are doing or thinking, so long as you are quite sure you have their best interests at heart before piping up and you're not pushing your own agenda or issues). Also, protect your friends' privacy and secrets and don't complain about your friends to others. If you have an issue with a friend, raise it with them. This is the sort of honourable behaviour that breeds trust.
Loyalty and trust go hand in hand and are built up over the years. For example if you heard a rumour about your friend, you won't believe it either because you know your friend and his/her character enough to put your trust or you didn't get her/ his side of the story. So as a loyal friend you would defend your friend first and stop the people who told the rumour to you and say to stop them spreading it faster. A not loyal friend would be passive and be silent, hear the rumour and won't comment on it, at first it looks loyal but indeed being silent is accepting. Worse is when you are a back stapper who spreads the rumour and thinks it's a little think and nobody would care. Or in a fight/ argument, you would've fastly took the side of the person who have you the story and plays the victim.
For example if you friend tells you, your bf/ he cheats in you than he is loyal and is telling you that without hiding it, because he/she is afraid you won't believe him/ her or blaim you as the bad news messanger. Some think they are loyal when they hide the true because you are happy with that knowledge in your relationship because you have kids, love your spouce/ partner/lover or are financially dependent on him/ her. Or because nobody wants to break a home or relationship. A loyal friend won't let you in the dark and found give you the information and knows you have some the same. Loyal friend means take care, handle your friend like how you wish them to be the same to you.