Is loneliness is our modern malaise ?
meaning of malaise is unhappiness .
Answers
No,
Loneliness is not our modern malaise.
Loneliness is our modern way to get over the bad stuff. Loneliness gives us time to think, think about ourselves, (well most of the time overthinking). I don't understand why people nowadays cry so much about being lonely! If you are lonely, you get time with yourself, for yourself. You get to know yourself better before knowing others. You get to love yourself before depending on others to make you feel loved. You hurt yourself being lonely at the same time you heal yourself by your own!
Loneliness may make you socially awkward but that is something you get over with , with due time, right? But not knowing yourself is something you don't get over with quickly if you don't talk to yourself.
Someone who is constantly lonely stops getting bothered by being lonely anymore. He/She gets to know the advantages of being lonely. He/She gets to know what are the things that make them happy and what not.
In my views, Loneliness is new happiness and not malaise. You get to enjoy your own company. In a funny way, you don't have to explain your emotions to anyone cause duh you know it cause theya re already yours. No one can literally play with your emotions. A person is important, I know, but you for yourself is more important.
Learn to live alone now or loneliness will haunt you and hurt you.
Make loneliness your friend, and your life calms down and so does you!
Trust me,.I ain't saying anything without experience :D
Cheers!
