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A very good friend of mine comes from a joint family. This year due to problems in her hostel and due to some personal reasons she wanted to live out near the college campus. Her parents agreed since her problem was genuine and the location she found was safe. She would have had more freedom and not be burdened by the regressive closing hours of hostel. Seriously 6pm. Our class ends by 5 and she was supposed to be in by 6.
Anyways all was going well till one of her so called uncles raised an issue. That she is a girl. Well of course she is. And that's why she was going to rent an apartment and there were some other girls who were going to stay with her. But this uncle was against it. He went on to say that she should be grateful that they are allowing her to study further and not getting her married. Her father suddenly had a change of heart. And now she is forced to live there.
You may call this an isolated incident but even my experience in a joint family was not so good. There was constant bickering that my mother was working when she should have stayed at home. I wonder where would I have been had my parents not decided to settle in for a small family.
I am not saying large families are bad. In fact they inculcate feelings of togetherness. But how much togetherness is actually necessary? Smothered by love is good but not by extra responsibility. The members who chose to live in a nucleated family did so because they perhaps wanted better living conditions, better education for their children. It is not always out of selfish pursuits. In fact our maternal grandmother stayed with us till her last. She was a part of our family and will always remain.
We should respect the decisions of those who make such choices. They are trying to do better for their children. May be they need a smaller family to be their best self. After all, a small family is a happy family.
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A very good friend of mine comes from a joint family. This year due to problems in her hostel and due to some personal reasons she wanted to live out near the college campus. Her parents agreed since her problem was genuine and the location she found was safe. She would have had more freedom and not be burdened by the regressive closing hours of hostel. Seriously 6pm. Our class ends by 5 and she was supposed to be in by 6.
Anyways all was going well till one of her so called uncles raised an issue. That she is a girl. Well of course she is. And that's why she was going to rent an apartment and there were some other girls who were going to stay with her. But this uncle was against it. He went on to say that she should be grateful that they are allowing her to study further and not getting her married. Her father suddenly had a change of heart. And now she is forced to live there.
You may call this an isolated incident but even my experience in a joint family was not so good. There was constant bickering that my mother was working when she should have stayed at home. I wonder where would I have been had my parents not decided to settle in for a small family.
I am not saying large families are bad. In fact they inculcate feelings of togetherness. But how much togetherness is actually necessary? Smothered by love is good but not by extra responsibility. The members who chose to live in a nucleated family did so because they perhaps wanted better living conditions, better education for their children. It is not always out of selfish pursuits. In fact our maternal grandmother stayed with us till her last. She was a part of our family and will always remain.
We should respect the decisions of those who make such choices. They are trying to do better for their children. May be they need a smaller family to be their best self. After all, a small family is a happy family.
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