just a minute speech on forgiveness
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Answer:Hope this helps you
Explanation:Forgiveness can be
defined as the foregoing of resentment or revenge when the wrongdoer's actions
deserve it. Forgiveness is a very subjective theme and everyone has there own
idea on who should and who should not be forgiven. Forgiveness can encompass
many different things, from merely accepting someone's apology to helping them
to find there way out of the situation they put themselves in.
I think,
that to be able to forgive others, you have to first be able to forgive
yourself. By this I mean that if you feel guilty about something, you have to be
able to accept that you made a mistake, but you also have to then carry on and
move forward. If you cannot forgive yourself, you will constantly be berate
yourself and you won’t be able to leave the past behind. Of course, you have to
learn from the mistakes you made and endeavour never to repeat them, but it’s
not necissary to constantly berate yourself over something that has already
happened and cannot be changed. Often, we are the last people to forgive
ourselves. In my opinion, once you realize that you have spent enough time
making yourself feel bad about something you have done, it becomes clear that
quite often, others have long since forgiven you.
Forgiving
others is a very subjective and complicated process. Everyone has their own set
of morals and ethics, which means that everyone has a different view of what can
be forgiven and what it means to forgive. I think that the hardest people to
forgive are the ones who are the closest to you. If someone else wrongs you, it
is easier to forgive, because you most probably don’t expect much from that
person anyway. If someone who is close to you however, a friend or partner for
example, then for them to do something which requires forgiveness means that
they have betrayed your trust to some extent. I think that the level of trust
breached determines how easy it is to then forgive someone. I think if someone
made a genuine mistake and this hurt you, then there is nothing to forgive, but
if someone intentionaly betrays your trust or does something even though they
know it will hurt you, then this makes it much more difficult to forgive.
In my opinion, everything can be forgiven, but not forgotten. For one thing
I we must learn from our mistakes, so to forget an instance would leave yourself
vulnerable to being hurt in the same way again. Obviously it is easy to say
everything can be forgiven, but you never know how you will react when you find
yourself in that very situaion, where you have to decide whether or not you can
forgive someone. Even though I think everything can be forgiven, that doesn’t
mean that the relationship between the forgiver and the forgivee will go back
to the way it was. It is not always possible to trust someone to the same
extent as before and even if it is, trust is something which has to be earned
back.
Speech on forgiveness:
- Forgiveness is letting go of the past and starting over with a clean slate. It is accepting the fact that people make mistakes; after all, we are all human beings capable of messing up and making mistakes.
- Unforgiving people often feel that they are victims of other people’s unacceptable behavior. This victim mentality, can build up a list of things the other person has done & increase the resentment and anger inside us.
- Forgiveness releases these negative feelings, and helps people come together.
- Now a days, people prefer to stay apart from their relatives rather than forgiving them. In this fast world, everyone is so busy in work that they do not have time for each other.
- If there is a misunderstanding between people then they prefer to cut communication with that person instead of forgiving him. Many people also consider it their defeat to admit that they have hurt other person.
- As a human being, we should accept that it is in human nature to make mistakes. No one is perfect in this world.
- Therefore, we should forgive others with big heart instead of taking the issue to heart. If we forget mistakes of others and free our mind from all the negative thoughts then this world would become a happy place to live in peacefully.
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