Life's
a Game ..life is a game composition
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Explanation:
You might not realise, but real life is a game of strategy. There are some fun mini-games – like dancing, driving, running, and sex – but the key to winning is simply managing your resources.
Most importantly, successful players put their time into the right things. Later in the game money comes into play, but your top priority should always be mastering where your time goes.
Childhood
Life begins when you’re assigned a random character and circumstances:
Select your character
The first 15 years or so of life are just tutorial missions, which suck. There’s no way to skip these.
Young adult stage
As a young player, you’ll have lots of time and energy, but almost no experience. You’ll find most things – like the best jobs, possessions and partners – are locked until you get some.
This is the time to level up your skills quickly. You will never have so much time and energy again.
Now that you’re playing properly, your top priority is to assign your time as well as possible. Every single thing you do affects your state and your skills:
Drink vs code
This may sound simple, but the problem is you won’t always know what tasks to choose, and your body won’t always obey your commands. Let’s break it down.
How to obey your own commands
Many players find that when they choose to do something – say “go to the gym” – their body ignores them completely.
This is not a bug. Everybody has a state, which you can’t see directly, but looks something like this:
Answer:life is a game if you think a little
Explanation:Events, including people's behavior, usually have consequences. In my case, for example, because my dad did not provide my mom and me with much in the way of financial support, my mom had to work two jobs when I was young and I had to work full time while going to graduate business school.
But his not giving us financial support had no meaning, by which I mean, I can't draw any conclusion for sure from his behavior. I don't know anything I didn't know before, from his behavior. I don't know anything about me, about life, about fathers, and even about my father.We have had clients who had been sexually abused earlier in life. The meaning they gave the abuse (the beliefs they formed) was that they were damaged goods, that men couldn't be trusted, that life was dangerous, etc. When they realized the event had horrific consequences but it had no inherent meaning, and when the beliefs had all disappeared, they experienced a freedom they couldn't have imagined possible. The event hadn't been running their life; the meanings they had given the event had been.
The role of values
A belief is a statement about reality that feels true, but exists only in our mind. It is the meaning we gave to a series of meaningless events. We have beliefs about ourselves (e.g., I'm not good enough), people (e.g., people can't be trusted), and life (e.g., life is difficult). These are meanings we gave to events in our lives.
A value is a belief about what we think is right and wrong, good and bad. Examples include parents should (or shouldn't)... the function of government should be... people should... it is wrong to....These and any other value statements are beliefs. You can't "see" in the world that they are true. Many people would disagree with any value statement you make. They exist only in your mind.
If value statements are always a type of belief and beliefs are always meaning we make up to explain meaningless events, then value statements are arbitrary and cannot be absolute truth. I'm not saying this is easy to accept, or that it doesn't feel "wrong," or that it seems to create many insolvable problems. Maybe it does. Wanting values to be objective and wanting your values to be the "right" values don't make them so.Ken Wilber has summarized the conclusions of many people who study the development of consciousness. They have demonstrated that society and individuals go through stages of consciousness, with each stage having its own unique worldview. The three stages that exist in most "developed" counties today are traditional (ethnocentric, family values, accepting religious dogma as absolute truth), modern (world-centric, the Industrial Revolution, science, rationality) and post modern (pluralistic, civil rights for all, a concern for the well-being of all people and for the environment).
People in each stage of development think that their worldview is correct and the others are wrong. If you have any question about this, look at how conservatives (largely at the traditional stage) and liberals (largely at the post modern stage) view each other today. (See almost any of Wilber's many books for more information on stages of development, especially Integral Psychology.)You forgot your life is a game
When you play a game, be it a sport like golf or tennis, or a card game like poker, or a board game like Clue or Monopoly, you feel good when you win and bad when you lose. Why? Because you have arbitrarily accepted that something is better than something else. You try to get the little white ball in a hole hundreds of yards away in fewer tries than someone else. Is it really "better" to do that? No, there is nothing about the nature of reality that makes it better. It's better because we say so, and only because we say so. The same is true for any sport or any game.
Yet despite the fact that we arbitrary made up rules that say something is better than something else, we get excited when we "win" (in other words, do what the rules require better than others) and sad or even upset when we "lose." What does it really mean if we win or lose? Take a moment and think about it. Can you get that it really means nothing. But because we "pretend" that it matters, we give all we can give, mentally and physically, to winning and not losing, and we have positive emotions when we win and negative emotions when we lose.