Logic behind mother do not send her daughter on wednesday to her husband house
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hey mate here is your answer......,,,,
Explanation:
have seen the above answers wherein people are calling it as “Indian Culture”. I just want everyone to look beyond your own territory. Please check what is happening in other countries. People in other countries are also following same ritual i.e. Girls leave their parents house after marriage. I am a 35 years old married guy and I very well understand the situation you( girls) are facing after marriage. After spending 25–30 years with your parents, you have to suddenly leave your parents house. You have to adjust to new situation…you have to live with new people…their (in-laws) rituals/customs surely differ from your parent's rituals/customs even if you have married in same community. Their behaviour is different from your parent's behaviour ….again you have to adjust accordingly.
Coming back to your question, I feel even guy side understand the thing because boy's (groom) mother and sister had also left their parent's home. But they expect one important thing from new member(girl, bride)…i.e. She should start treating her new home as most important thing in life….as if she was living with them from years…she should start taking responsibility of house…she should start participate in her new home affairs….she is actively involved in every thing of her new house. This fact may not be digested by many person but i want them to please look at their mother….when she left her parents house she was also facing the same situation…you can check how much frequently she used to visit her parents house….how she was managing all the affairs in new house(in-laws place)…how she(mother) is loving daughter of her parents but she know that priority changes after…girl has to focus more on in-laws house…i think most of in-laws in metro cities does not newly wedded girl to visit her parents house….even they also understand her emotions but girl also has to understand one important fact their prime responsibility lies in in-laws house because now she is the member of new family….she has left her parents' house after following the customs of marriage….if you go through the 7 promises of marriage…then you can understand that those things are practically really important to live married life successfully. Otherwise all the families (bride parent's, groom parent's and future generations) will suffer.