Question

My friend is addicted to her phone write a letter to advise him

Answer 1

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It frustrates me to no end when people don't realize the importance of being responsible for ones actions. They come with all sorts of sorry excuses as to why they cannot be held accountable for their own lives. They blame the fact that we are weak and human. Yet their beautiful God given children suffer for it.

Drugs cannot take you by the hand and say smoke me. You make a conscious decision to smoke/sniff/inject. No one can force you to take a hit. If people are offering you drugs, it's time to find new friends. Friends who want to see you succeed, no true friend will want you to abandon your children/family or your God. Oh...and when you're going through withdrawals and feeling sorry for yourself, TRUST ME! we don't care. Did you care about whether your child had food to eat last night? Do you care that your child doesn't know you? Do you care that someone else is being the Mother or Father to your baby that You should've been? While you're out getting laid and partying up a storm someone, somewhere is sitting up at night comforting a possibly sick baby, feeding and loving YOUR child?

I am sorry, but when you chose to have babies.....you made a promise to always protect and care for them. Even if you are doing it alone without the help of your spouse/lover or former lover.YOU should be the reason that your child knows what love is and how to show it.

I know that many people did not have very happy childhoods, but why not be of the opinion that I WILL BREAK THE CYCLE. We should want for our children what we did not have as kids.