Narrate an incident which motivated you when you were depressed
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YOU SEE, IN EVERY MOMENT, YOU HAVE A CHOICE. TO EITHER HONOR THE PART OF YOU THAT CRAVES SOMETHING MORE OR TO CONTINUE SQUEEZING INTO A ROLE THAT DOESN’T FILL YOUR CUP.
For most of my life, I didn’t know I had this choice. After all I got married at the age of 19. Although it felt painful at times, I believed that I had to try my hardest to “measure up” to the cultural rules set before me:
To be a good Indian girl by marrying and having children, instead of pursuing higher studies
To be a submissive and obedient housewife who rolled a perfect chapatti, instead of a woman who had an exciting and abundant career
And to always attend to the desires of my husband, family, and friends before even considering my own
For my entire life, I lived in fear of disappointing others, and I believed there was something wrong with me in the moments I failed to meet their wishes. I battled with the part of myself that wanted to do things differently and carve my own path. I had dreams of climbing Mount Everest, enjoying in Spain, and seeing the Eiffel Tower in Paris.
DEEP DOWN, I WANTED THE FREEDOM TO BE ME
I just didn’t know how. So I went on playing it safe, toeing the line between fitting in and honoring my true self.
While I did go on to pursue some of my greatest desires – even though coming from an orthodox family where women in the house never worked. But I was the person who wanted to go about creating my own identity and making my own money. So I went on to do my graduation and while doing that I was taking tuitions so that I can get some pocket money for myself. That led me to training people for land revenue and voter ID cards projects that we got from government. Now this gave me some confidence and experience. Few companies in Rajkot that were Multinational Companies very soon found out about my strength as a trainer and offered me a job. But again I was not allowed.
It wasn’t long before fear began to manifest itself in my physical form. In 2009 I was traumatise emotionally and was looking for emotional support and the universe answered my calling. I was miraculously was drawn to the book You Can Heal Your Life and all my problems and situations flashed in front my eyes and I got an understanding as to why my life is the way it is.
BEGINNING OF TRANSFORM WITH NEHA
For the first time in my life I felt super charged up and empowered about what I want to do. After doing some finding and hunting I came across Heal Your Life teacher training in Australia and I was determined to do it. The course fee was 4 lakh rupees which at that point in time was really a huge sum for me. On top of this my family was against me doing this course. So I did what was required. I literally begged and borrowed for funds to pursue my dreams because I was so sure this is what I want to do.
And that was the dawn of TRANSFORM WITH NEHA creating breakthroughs and transformations for those who need the most. Since I was not from training background, psychology background or healing background it was difficult for me. But I had a burning desire and this module with a deep motivation because I really loved this work. And after lot of trial and error I finally became confident about it and now charge Rs. 10,000 for the workshop for which I initially charged Rs. 500. It has been a journey. Since then I have touched lives of close 10,000 plus people across India.
I REALISED THAT THE PEACE AND LOVE HUMANKIND CRAVES RESIDES INSIDE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US. AND WE CAN ACCESS IT ANYTIME