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Give a converstion between an Optimist and an Introvert.

True facts has to be included...

And What One can know from this conversation.


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A psychological question..

Answer 1

Never, being an introvert is not bad at all .Okay this answer is gonna be written by a person who is an absolute introvert .Umm..you got it right I am an utter introvert .So let's have an in depth analysis of introvertness .What is meaning of introvert ; Introvert: a person who tends to shrink from social contacts and to become preoccupied with their own thoughts.

“As an introvert ,I crave meaningful one to one conversation with a like-minded person when in large groups ,I tend to get quiet ,and often I'll get lost in the shuffle.I will shut down completely if the crowd is too large and loud .I'll make an early exit as soon as I feel overwhelmed. The truth is , I feel more lonely in large group than I would just being alone .Ahhh…but those conversations with just you and me are like magic .I come alive once again .I open up and invite you to know the real me .It kindles my heart and warms my soul when I capture your undivided attention .No disturbance, no distraction, no interruption, Just two people spending their time sharing little pieces of their hearts and minds .That, my friend, is a beautiful thing.”


In our society there are too many myths about introverts which are

Myth-Introverts don't like people

What? Introverts too are humans ,they aren't any scavenger or vampire .I do like people .

Myth-Introverts don't have friends

Reality- well in my case it seems true .On the contrary ,introverts value the few friends . I can count my close friends on one hand .I have only four friends (which are my best ones and going to be forever, astonishingly there is one female out of four) . If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend,you probably have a royal ally for life .Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance,you are in .



Myth-Introverts are Anti-social

Reality: Totally nonsense .Introverts like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. Introverts just don't like to go out in public FOR AS LONG.



Myth-Introverts always tend to be alone

Reality - Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts .They think a lot .They day dream( happens with me usually) . I like to have to work on puzzles ,to solve Rubik's Cube ,Solving Sudoku, Playing chess on my phone.

Myth-Love and Relationships

Introverts crave on authentic and sincere connection with ONE SINGLE PERSON at a time that is TRUE LOVE. Our introvertness doesn't allows to do flirt or acting fake in front of others .



Myth-Introverts are bashful

Reality- I am not shy and why to be shy? Shyness has nothing to do with being an introvert .Introvert are not necessarily afraid of people .What they need is reason to interact. They don't interact for the sake of interacting. If you wanna talk to an introvert ,just start talking ,Don't worry about being polite .



Myth-Introverts don't like to talk

Reality: This is not true . Introverts just don't talk unless they have something .I hate small talk .Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in,and they won't stop for days( in my case let's start about Cricket,Astrophysics and Quantum mechanics).



Myth-Introverts are rude

Reality-What ??? I often don't see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. My philosophy demands everyone to just be real and honest .Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit ,which I find exhausting.

Listening to music

Yeah ,of course music relieves the stress and keeps you calm.I do it on daily basis.

Reading and writing

My favorite work reading Science books ,biographies of scientists (those of physicists in bulk),writing on quora ,writing on my blog page.
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