Question

Okay, so this is more of a situation question, of my friend, not ME! So she told this rather introvert guy that ,she liked him. That guy told he liked her back. Small background info: She was the only girl who spoke to him, they hung out sometimes. But they haven't spoken to each other since march, because they use their parents phones. Some friends told her, he just said he liked her because he was being nice and didn't wanna break her heart. while others said he was gay. Now she is kinda heart broken. What should she do? pl be nice to her.

Answer 1

uhh....i think you should tell her to sit down with him and talk about their feeling s more openly and find out what exactly he is feeling; i mean, whether he actually likes her or not.

and if she isnt up for talking to him, maybe she should learn that crushes like these will come and go and it isnt always necessary that the other person will like you back. I say this from experience. And honestly, sitting with them and talking to them really helps because it helps you get rid of the unwanted feelings. I mean, i had a mild crush on this guy before and i told him...he used to feel that way but he didnt anymore and guess what, we are best friends now. So ig if she doesnt want to loose him at all, she should talk to him.

Hope this helps;)