One feels other's pain only when one goes through it himself/herself.
Do you agree with the above line ? Give reasons to support your answer.
No short answers. ☺
Answers
Hey there!
Sheena here!
________________________________________________________
As you know that we express our own feelings. Feelings and expressions are the two things that all organisms express. Humans might have tried to hide them but to tell you its hardly impossible to hide and just keep them in our heart.
For example, If you are hurt by the one whom you love more than you love yourself, You will probably feel the expression of sorrow i.e You will feel like crying but Sometimes our mind says something and our heart expresses something else. Our heart would say us to cry but our mind will say us something else. It might say us to hurt the person back or It may say to just speak in such a way that you don't need him/her or it may support our heart and would let us cry.
Thats an example where we can say that our expression and feelings are sometimes not expressed at the time right when some situation occurs. But trust me, They will surely express that feeling when they are alone.
With this I want to conclude that, feelings are always expressed in some or the other way. There won't be a single person who never expresses his/her feelings.
So coming to your question:
One feels other's pain only when one goes through it himself/herself.
I agree with this statement.
If I feel bad for XYZ reason I would probably cry, No one other than me will feel to cry until he/she is also suffering the same XYZ problem with me.
He/she will feel the feeling only when he will suffer the same problem because people cry when they suffer from some sorrow or some critical problems!
We humans are so sensitive that we can just feel the feelings only when some action takes place. We cannot feel someone else's feelings because their feelings cannot link with our heart.
I would like to give out an Example where I will try to prove that you can feel other's pain when you yourself go through the situation faced by some other.
Let us say You are A and you have a friend B. You both are brilliant students.
Once in an examination B gets very less marks, even lesser than he expected.
So, what would be B's reaction? Obviously B will be very disappointed. B may cry or might be disappointed. Whereas you, You got the highest marks in the class. So, You won't be sad, right? You will be happy. But, In same time you may try convincing B that this single sheet of paper won't decide his future.
If you really think the situation practically, I guess you would understand what I meant to say.
So, Practical analysis is important to feel a feeling. If you experience something,only you will feel the feeling, None else could feel what you felt.
There would be an exceptional case.
There is someone who can feel your pain even if she/he is not involved or present in the situation.
That is a Mother.
Yes, a Mother can feel her child's pain because she is experienced with many pains, and when her own child experiences the same pain, then Surely our Mothers are also feeling it.
Only a Mother can understand you as the connection between you and your mother is not an ordinary one.
With this, I would like to say that feeling someone's else's pain is something which is very hard to feel, but if you once feel it you would surely feel what the other felt.
____________________________________________________________
I hope this answer helps you the best!
Thank you so much!
Heya mate....
Really nice question...which forced me to think....
As a human being...i feel others pain...in this universe many people can feel it...but the question arise on what extent...some people feel pain amd just ignore that person...some act and are ready to help....
Secondly coming to point....i feel the pain...of others....let me explain it in a very simple way...u r doing prep for exams....and your friend too....if he failed even after doing well...he will be sad...but u will not feel that level pain as he/she is feeling.....not by gods grace..if u fails then u will feel disappountment...same happened with me...my friend failed in his unit test...i suggested him to be calm and do better in exams...but when i failed in my monthly...which are not of worth...i felt the pain...i was really sad...that tym my friends support helped me to overcome but at the end it is our mind...which can support us...and motivate us....
So...its true we feel others pain when we suffer it ourselves....
#the worst thing in the world....watching someone in pain and u are not able to help but u want too....
Hope u like...i tried my level best ^_^
@skb♥️♥️