Question

only barriers knows where the shoe pinches justify this statement on the basis of the letter

Answer 1

"Only the bearer knows where the shoe pinches "means that only a person,{here coachman ali} knows the true pain after loosing his daughter to distance.All others make fun of him as they have not suffered the feeling of seperation of their loved ones.only a person who has suffered the same loss will understand his dilemma and his agony as they have been in the same situation once.