Paragraph on be the change you want to see in your world.
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We spend a lot of time trying to change other people. There is, after all, so much wrong with them: they’re selfish, arrogant, bullying, weak, cold, needy and so on.
So we try to point this out – and often meet with resistance, denial or sheer indifference. This can be very agitating and hence renders us cross and severe. Why won’t people take our lessons on board?
In our behaviour, we tend to be making an implicit distinction between two projects: getting other people to change – and changing ourselves. We know we may have to develop in certain ways, but for now, our focus is on altering others. We make an evolution in our own behaviour conditional on evolutions in other people’s. We vow that we’ll be nicer if they’re nicer, that we’ll be less strident if they give up shouting.
However, we’re prone to miss an important insight: changing how you behave to others can be the fastest way to alter how others behave towards you.
People tend – to a remarkable extent – to mirror behaviour. If someone is aggressive around them, they become aggressive back. If someone is gentle, they become soft in return. If someone acts wisely, it’ll draw any latent reserves of wisdom out of the audience.
We’re often in the paradoxical position of advocating one kind of behaviour while making use of quite another. We might quite angrily suggest that someone else calm down. Or we may bullyingly insist to a person that they try to be more empathetic. We deserve sympathy. It’s the agitation and anxiety of trying to teach that can easily take us far from the behaviour we’re advocating.
Here it bears to remember a saying often falsely attributed to Mahatma Gandhi though eminently useful nevertheless: ‘Be the change you want to see.’ It captures something key: how sensible it may often be to give up on teaching directly in order to try to teach by example.
This has one great advantage: we can control ourselves while it’s remarkably hard to exert any sort of direct control over anyone else. Our disappointment with other people should be redirected towards exerting control over the one thing we can reliably command: ourselves.
Seeing us exhibiting certain virtues has a remarkable ability to inspire others into imitating us. And even if change is not immediate, we can at least take pride in the integrity of our position, knowing that we have had the strength and dignity already to have started to become the change we want to see.
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The change I want to see in my world;
the first change I want to see is the girls should be given the equal importance as per boys.not only for education purpose.boys are allowed to drink as well as go anywhere at anytime but girls are not allowed after 9'o clock.It is because that the parents think that it is not safe for the girls.ok why the parents think like that?It is obviously because of the boys.Boys must change their view towards girls.they should see her and understand that she also have life and they should realize that she have freedom. I am not saying everyone.because of a few boys the name of all the boys and the freedom of all the girls are affected.
And the second thing;
After marriage most of the men think that his wife must do and obey his orders.Remember, she is your wife and not your maid.so both must be given equal importance in taking decisions.
And the third thing;
I do need a pollution free world.full of green gardens and flowers l.no smell of pollution and no plastic.no diseases like cancer.
BUT YOU KNOW LIFE IS FULL OF GOODS AND BADS.
If these things happen life will be full of only goods
If everyone is friendly and avoid the sense of greed and jealousy,the world would be heaven
I KNOW THESE THINGS WON'T HAPPEN IN REALITY.BUT THESE DO HAPPEN IN MY NIGHT DREAMS. THAT'S WHY DREAMS ARE BETTE RTHAN THE REAL
LIFE.
DO MARK AS BRAINLIEST IF IT HELPS YOU DUDE!!!