Question

People are getting modernised. They are very modern that even kids are abler to think and take wise decisions like adults.Is this a reason for Love towards other gender in childhood. Is this love true or simply a attraction.

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Answer 1

Hey!!

Yes truely our world is getting more and more modernised. Different gadgets are being invented and people are getting so much advanced. The world is developing and improving technically. In this world people are also modernising. Children are being very matured from a young age and are able to take their decisions and choices carefully. Being matured can be both helpful and harmful for a child. The only factor that controls it is the child itself

ADVANTAGE

Being matured is no joke. It helps us in so many ways. We are able to take better choices in our life which will again affect our future (obviously in a good way if they are made in a wise manner). By being matured you can actually understand each other's problem and can express your thoughts and views freely. Everybody prefers a matured kid. It's not that you have to be too much matured for your age but atleast be sensible for your age to make right decisions and choices in your life.

DISADVANTAGE

Becoming too much matured for age can be harmful too. In most of the cases the trouble is that children become over smart and over confident because of this. And you can never have a positive and a successful result by being over confident. As the saying goes being confident is okay but not over confident. Also children will tend to think something else that isn't appropriate for their age. This does not mean only any kind of bad stuff but it can be any type of thinking. It will definitely affect their future and can even sometimes destroy them very badly.

Often what happens is this maturity turns out to be something else. Attraction is a very common factor is in this world. People get attracted to others. This can't always be called love. For example : online relationships. Without even knowing the person well, without even meeting him/her it can sometimes be really dangerous to be in a relationship with someone over the Internet. Of course we have the social medias for these purposes. But one forgets that the purpose of social media is not to encourage online relationships. It is used to take part in social network and connect to various people from the world.

Connecting doesn't mean you have to fall in love with the person. But of course there are a few relationships that go very well and they end up being a couple in real life also. But it happens very less. You must be very fortunate enough to have an online relationship successful. Most of them get separated as they just on their career and jobs. Therefore love towards gender over the Internet can't really be called as true or eternal love. It can be a type of attraction.

Real life situations are very much different. In real life you get to see the person, meet him/her personally and get to spend time with that person to improve your relationship. Maturity plays a very vital role here. Nor only here but also in online relationships.

HOPE THIS HELPS YOU...

Answer 2

Heya!
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Here is your answer:-

Firstly I am just a thirteen year old girl who just entered her teenage. Teenage beings a lot of changes in ones life and teenage life is really interesting and amazing.

Yes, the moden now and we can find parents giving a lot of freedom to their children at very young age.. and this is not bad at all in my opinion because even my parents give me at nd t of freedom because they trust me and they know I will never let them down..

In the matter of getting attracted or love towards other gender.. it's really common these days specially at teenage. Having crushes isn't bad loving someone is not fault !!

I swear.. I have seen many relationships which went till marriage when their puppy love started just at high school! Few people just cannot understand the difference between like, love , crush and attraction.

I donot say you can not love when your at teenage but that innocene in you sometimes really makes you fall in love ...

Being mature is not at all bad. I proudly say is am very well mature at my age, I can diffreciate between good and bad people.

For you question I think the answer is no ( my own opinion ) because even at olden days when children were not given much freedom compared to now still got attracted to each other...

In schools and colleges most teenagers just get attracted to the oposite gender example : 93% students may just get attracted but the remaining 7% must have found their soul mate. !! And obviously parents aren't responsible for their children to fall in love !!


Many generations may come and go but true love always stays forever..!!
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Hope this helps!