Question

People are getting modernised. They are very modern that even kids are abler to think and take wise decisions like adults.Is this a reason for Love towards other gender in childhood. Is this love true or simply a attraction

Answer 1

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Yes truely our world is getting more and more modernised. Different gadgets are being invented and people are getting so much advanced. The world is developing and improving technically. In this world people are also modernising. Children are being very matured from a young age and are able to take their decisions and choices carefully. Being matured can be both helpful and harmful for a child. The only factor that controls it is the child itself.


ADVANTAGE

Being matured is no joke. It helps us in so many ways. We are able to take better choices in our life which will again affect our future (obviously in a good way if they are made in a wise manner). By being matured you can actually understand each other's problem and can express your thoughts and views freely. Everybody prefers a matured kid. It's not that you have to be too much matured for your age but atleast be sensible for your age to make right decisions and choices in your life.

DISADVANTAGE

Becoming too much matured for age can be harmful too. In most of the cases the trouble is that children become over smart and over confident because of this. And you can never have a positive and a successful result by being over confident. As the saying goes being confident is okay but not over confident. Also children will tend to think something else that isn't appropriate for their age. This does not mean only any kind of bad stuff but it can be any type of thinking. It will definitely affect their future and can even sometimes destroy them very badly. 

Often what happens is this maturity turns out to be something else. Attraction is a very common factor is in this world. People get attracted to others. This can't always be called love. For example : online relationships. Without even knowing the person well, without even meeting him/her it can sometimes be really dangerous to be in a relationship with someone over the Internet. Of course we have the social medias for these purposes. But one forgets that the purpose of social media is not to encourage online relationships.It is used to take part in social network and connect to various people from the world. 

Connecting doesn't mean you have to fall in love with the person. But of course there are a few relationships that go very well and they end up being a couple in real life also. But it happens very less. You must be very fortunate enough to have an online relationship successful. Most of them get separated as they just on their career and jobs. Therefore love towards gender over the Internet can't really be called as true or eternal love. It can be a type of attraction.


Real life situations are very much different. In real life you get to see the person, meet him/her personally and get to spend time with that person to improve your relationship. Maturity plays a very vital role here. Nor only here but also in online relationships. 

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