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Stop giving him advice of any kind on anything. At first, simply respond to requests for your views by saying sympathetic comments like: “That's a tough choice! I really hope things work out well for you!”
If your friend insists, “But what should I do?” you answer, “I sure wish I knew. But I don't.”
If he pushes — “What would YOU do!” — then answer, kindly, “I would not ask ME for advice, because if you take my advice, and it doesn't turn out well, you blame me for it. I refuse to accept that responsibility.”
“I won't blame you! I promise.” To which you say, “It's already happened three times. I'm not going down that road with you again, ever. Sorry. But I hope you find a course that works for you.”
“If you were really my friend, you'd help me.” “I AM helping you. I'm urging you to make your own choice, and then take full responsibility for the consequences. What I'm not going to do is make the choice for you, and then get blamed for any bad results.”
“If you were really my friend, you —” “If you were really MY friend, you would stop putting me in this position, because you always end up mad at me, and I'm done with that.”
If he breaks off the friendship over this, then go find a friend who takes responsibility for himself. You don't need this lose-lose relationship in your life.
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