Question

Plz provide me with a article for school maganize ...... (inspiring one)

Answer 1

One of the enriching blessings of growing older all the time is that it has a way of improving one’s commitment to laughter — or at least it should.  The person without a good sense of humor is a person to avoid as though he were a known carrier of the plague.

Horace Walpole once said, “I have never yet seen or heard anything serious that was not ridiculous.”  And Samuel Butler said, “The one serious conviction that a man should have is that nothing is to be taken seriously.”  It has been said that seriousness is the only refuge of the shallow.  Oscar Wilde said, “It is a curious fact that the worst work is always done with the best intentions, and that people are never so trivial as when they take themselves very seriously.”

I remember that when I was in the service, one of the toughest jobs I had was to keep from laughing at the wrong times — during an admiral’s inspection, for example.  There is nothing funnier than the seriousness of the military, especially high-ranking military.  The fancy costumes, the panoply, the shining sabers, the serious faces — it was all, to me, hilariously funny.

We can be serious about situations.  When a youngster is ill or hurt, or someone insults your spouse, you can get very serious about the situation in a hurry.  But that’s not taking ourselves seriously. That’s different.

The thing that bothered me about Hemingway, as much as I admired his work, was that I thought he tended to take himself too seriously.  He didn’t seem to be able to laugh at himself.  And I think he suffered from this flaw in his character.

I have found it a good rule of thumb to be slightly suspicious of anyone who takes himself too seriously.  There’s usually something fishy there someplace. I think this is why we love children so much:  Life is a game to them.  They will do their best at whatever work is given them, but they never seem to lose their ebullient sense of humor; there is always a sparkle of humor in their eyes.  When a child lacks this, he or she is usually in need of help.

Dictators are famous for their lack of humor.  The mark of a cruel person is that he doesn’t seem to be able to see anything funny in the world.  And, a sense of humor was what was so great about Mark Twain.  No matter how serious the subject, he could find the humor in it and bring it out.  All the great comedians have this ability to see what’s funny in the so-called serious situation.  They can poke fun at themselves.  There are those who believe that a sense of humor is the only thing that has kept the human race from totally extinguishing itself.

People who are emotionally healthy, with a sense of proportion, are cheerful people.  They tend to look upon the bright side of things and see a lot of humor in their daily lives.  They’re not Pollyannas — they know what’s going on and that a lot of it’s not at all funny — but they don’t permit the dark side of things to dominate their lives.  To my mind, when a person lacks a sense of humor, there’s something pretty seriously wrong with him.

Samuel Butler said, “A sense of humor keen enough to show a man his own absurdities as well as those of other people will keep a man from the commission of all sins, or nearly all, save those that are worth committing.”

It took a sense of humor to write that, and only people with blank spaces where their senses of humor should be will find it offensive.  There’s something so healthy about laughter, especially when it’s directed at ourselves.

There are times for all of us when all the laughter seems to be gone, but we should not permit these periods to last too long.  When we’ve lost our sense of humor, there isn’t very much left.  We become ridiculous.  We must then go to war against the whole world, and that’s a war we cannot win.

Answer 2

   

The Tiny Black Dot 
Jeff Keller

  

During some of my presentations, I take an 8 1/2 x 11 piece of white paper and make a little black dot in the middle.  Then I show the sheet to people in the audience and ask them what they see.  The majority will say that they see a black dot.  Very few, if any, will tell me that they see a white sheet of paper with a tiny black dot.

We tend to look at our lives in very much the same way.  We have our health, enough food to eat, a job that pays the bills and allows us some leisure activities, but we don't focus on that.  We don't appreciate that.

Instead, we concentrate on the tiny black dot - the 10% in our lives that we don't like. . . or the things we wish we could change.  By concentrating on the 10% that represents our problems or things we don't like, we develop a negative attitude and feel lousy.  Plus, there's a universal principle that comes into play: we attract what we think about most.

By focusing on what is lacking in our lives, we create more experiences of scarcity.

Think about your life.  Are you paying too much attention to the 10% that isn't what you want it to be, as opposed to the 90% that's going well?  I'm not saying we should ignore our challenges or things we'd like to change.  But if we paid a lot more attention to the 90% that IS working, we'd have a better attitude and we'd get better results.

When it comes to your job, do you concentrate on all the positive aspects of your position, or do you gripe about your salary and your co-workers, or the fact that someone else got the promotion you wanted?

What about the basic necessities of life?  Do you feel gratitude every day for the food you eat, the clothing you have, the roof above your head, or do you take all of these things for granted?  Worse yet, do you complain that you don't have more?

And let's not forget your body and your health.  How much time do you spend thinking about what IS working?  Your body is a miracle, make no mistake about that.  There's nothing "ho-hum" about your body and its day to day operation.

Albert Einstein once said that there are two ways to live your life:  one way is as though nothing is a miracle; the other is as though everything is a miracle.

Most of us walk around with a ho-hum attitude about the miracle of our bodies. We treat this amazing creation as if it's no big deal.

Consider this:  your heart is only the size of a fist and yet it pumps blood through your body.  Every day, the heart pumps about 2,000 gallons of blood and beats about 100,000 times.  That's just in one day.

In one year, that amounts to 36,500,000 beats.  And in most cases, the heart just keeps on beating 36,500,000 times a year for many decades.  Stop for a moment and recognize the enormity of this miracle.

And, of course, you don't have to change any body parts or beat your chest manually to keep your heart going.  It automatically beats and sends the blood through your body with no effort on your part.

Now, let's consider your brain.  The brain and spinal cord are made up of many cells, which include neurons.  There are about 100 billion neurons in the brain.  100 billion!  Neurons are nerve cells that transmit nerve signals to and from the brain at up to 200 miles per hour.  Isn't this amazing?

Of course, your ears. . . your eyes. . . well, I could go on all day about the miracle of your body and how we take it for granted.  Just one final example to drive the point home.

When you get a cold and have difficulty breathing for a few days, I bet you'll often tell everyone that you are congested and don't feel well.  When the cold clears up in a week and your breathing returns to normal, you probably don't say:  "My breathing is perfect today! I'm able to get all the oxygen I need!"  Why does it make sense to complain about your breathing for the one week it is impaired. . . while failing to acknowledge the other 51 weeks when your breathing is full and healthy?

Stop taking this incredible body for granted.  Appreciate all the things that ARE working!  You're a walking miracle, and part of an extraordinary universe.

Some of you may feel that ignoring the black dot is not the answer--and that you need to focus on the  black dot to improve certain conditions in your life.  Well, if you choose this route, here are three strategies you could use:

1.  Worry about the black dot.
2.  Complain about the black dot.
3.  Take some proactive steps to eliminate or reduce the black dot.

The only strategy that makes sense is #3.  Yet many people select strategies #1 and #2, which only makes them more miserable.

Be brutally honest with yourself.  Are there any areas of your life where you're ignoring the large white sheet and seeing only the tiny black dot?  Do you see the faults of those at work or at home, and seldom affirm people for their positive contributions to your life?  If you're like most of us, you have an abundance of blessings, yet you're often blind